The Only Advice About Giving Blowjobs That Really Matters

While a third of men may prefer oral to intercourse, all men prefer when their partner listens to their desires.

There are about 1.5 billion search results on how to give a blowjob on google. It seems like the blowjob gets the most attention not only in porn but in every SexEd or women’s magazines filled with various bits of advice for both men and women.

According to an Onlinedoctor survey, nearly 30% of men would choose blowjobs over intercourse:

While about 1 in 3 men said blowjobs were only somewhat important in their sex lives, more than 22 percent identified receiving oral sex as either moderately or extremely important to their sense of sexual satisfaction.

Though I already wrote an article about the ways to make a blowjob pleasurable for both men and women, sharing some of the tips I found helpful when it comes to oral sex, there’s still one particular piece of advice that often remains forgotten — listening to your partner.

Just like our clits, all penises are different. I often see articles encouraging men to get to know their partners and try out different options while carefully listening to the feedback their body is giving away, however when it comes to blowjobs, it seems like most of the time people are trying to create some ultimate techniques that are supposed to please each and every man.

When I first went down on a guy with an uncircumcised penis after only having experience with a cut one, I felt slightly insecure. It seemed like what used to work in the past, didn’t apply on a priori more sensitive penis. After coming down too harsh, I realized I had to get to know the penis the same way I was getting to know its owner

No matter how many blowjob techniques you’ll learn (which of course might come handy later on), it’s important to always remember that all men (and all penises) are different. What turns on one might turn off the other and therefore don’t ever be shy to take some time and make sure you know what your partner desires.

Some men like when your hands are involved, others might find it distracting. Some would melt as soon as you suck on their balls, others though might be too sensitive for that. Ask your partner what he wants, what he likes and dislikes. What turns him on when it comes to blowjobs and if there’s something he always wanted to try.

The more you get to know your partner and his desires the more unforgettable and unique your intimate experience will remain.

After all, who cares about all the articles you’ve read from Cosmo if you simply don’t bother to ask your partner whether what you’re doing feels good to him?

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