The Narcissist’s Love Game

A narcissist is unable to form a bond with another person, but he wants you to form a bond with him so that he can control you more easily. The feeling of love, happiness and fulfillment puts your guard down and the narcissist takes advantage of this. It is easier for him to penetrate your mind and extract everything he needs to make you even more addicted.

Over time, the narcissist begins to play games based on guilt, anxiety and fear. You wanted to be loved, you wanted to be in a relationship, and the narcissist created an illusion for you so real that you believed it.

The narcissist shows you an illusion, a substitute for love, when he buys you something or does something for you. Normal people have feelings and you can only count on something like that from a narcissist, but this ends over time and you become just a tool, an object that is supposed to bring benefits to the narcissist.

The narcissist needs to be adequately supplied. If you don’t provide this to him, then you will be replaced, and even if you provide this to him, he will get bored of it, it’s only a matter of time.

In a relationship with a narcissist, you are simply a blindfolded horse that can only go in one direction. The narcissist wants you to spend your entire life giving him what he needs and you have no right to have any other goals in your life.

The narcissist takes advantage of your empathy, uses your love and compassion against you. A narcissist addicts you and then pushes you away, he plays hot and cold with you, sometimes it’s better, sometimes worse, sometimes everything, sometimes nothing. When he pushes you away, then pulls you closer to him, you gain some warmth, only for him to take it away from you later. You can’t explain it all logically, you don’t know what’s happening. Sometimes it’s like this and sometimes it’s quite the opposite.

A narcissist deliberately creates confusion and chaos because it is easier for him to find himself in chaos, it is easier to control you when you do not know where you stand. For a narcissist, love is a weapon he uses to fight you. As long as you feel something for a narcissist, you are a loser, it is an illusion of love. The narcissist wants you to spend the rest of your life in a simulator so that you don’t realize that you only see what you want to see, but the narcissist sees it completely differently. The narcissist plays his role, he tells you that he loves you, but it’s just a trick to make you fall into his trap, so that you spend as much time there as possible, believing that it’s love

The narcissist makes you more and more dependent on him, you feel more and more insecure, sometimes you will have delusions of love, and sometimes he will use your feelings against you. You will be punished and you don’t even know why. A narcissist wants to control your emotions because he knows that by influencing them, he has control over you. Your emotions and feelings are used against you.

The entire relationship with a narcissist is based on techniques and principles of manipulation. This relationship is designed this way, and you just follow the plan, get the job done. The narcissist wants you to feel worthless, they want you to feel like they do, they want you to feel like you are not good enough. Many times, a narcissist will leave you in a way that makes you feel like you don’t deserve his love, that you should change, that you should try harder.

A narcissist may tell you many times that he loves you, but this is not possible. A narcissist cannot give you what he does not have. There is a void in his brain in the areas responsible for these feelings. He doesn’t feel it because his brain is built differently. A narcissist has feelings contrary to love, he sees love itself as a sign of weakness and despises it.

You are in a simulator with a narcissist, you think it is true and you are waiting for the next stages, and the narcissist knows perfectly well that it is a demo version and that you have no chance of moving on to the next stage. The narcissist put rose-colored glasses on you so that you become attached to him, become addicted to him and don’t see dark colors.

The narcissist will shower you with love until you become addicted, until he triggers these feelings in you. You will receive compliments, you will receive gifts that will make the illusion even more real. As quickly as it appeared, it may disappear unexpectedly, for no reason, and then you start to wonder what is happening, what you did wrong. You are looking for answers, you have hundreds of questions in your head, you want to fix it, you don’t understand that it’s not your fault, you didn’t do anything wrong. The narcissist knows exactly what he is doing to you, he just enjoys your reactions.

The narcissist plays with you, brainwashes you, tells you that you are doing something wrong, gets you used to constant criticism, you take on more and more, you are trained like a dog that jumps higher and higher, and the narcissist stands several floors above and waves candy. through the window. This training has a specific goal, it is a process leading to complete submission. The narcissist wants you to lose your self-esteem, it gives him satisfaction when you become his slave.

Sometimes you get some candy, the narcissist will come back and give you some warmth to make you cooperate better. The narcissist reprograms your brain, you are waiting for a candy that he hasn’t even bought yet. You are addicted to the narcissist and his acceptance. As soon as the narcissist speaks to you, you feel calm, only for the narcissist to not speak to you again for hours, days, or months.

You are waiting for the return of this great love that you believed in at the beginning. You must understand that it was just a cruel joke, because a narcissist is incapable of loving anyone. He thinks that love is for stupid and naive people and he thinks that you are just such a person.

A narcissist uses love as a means to an end. He makes you believe in this feeling, he creates it in you just to take advantage of you. The narcissist uses love as a weapon, you were attacked with your own weapon and that is why it hurts so much. A narcissist drives you crazy with love, uses love as a tool for attack, but also as a bandage for wounds. You have been wounded by love, and then he will bandage your wounds with the same love.

A narcissist is addicted to what you provide him with and will tell you he loves you just so that you continue to provide him with those things. The narcissist will repeat this to you so that your resources for him will never be depleted. A narcissist will tell you what you want to hear, but he or she will never know what love really is because the narcissist will never feel it.

A narcissist who says he loves you is actually asking what he can get from you in return for these empty words