HUMAN BEHAVIOUR
The Narcissist Is a Mosquito
Narcissists exploit people who have a lot of empathy
Narcissists are just like mosquitoes. They go after people who have thin skin. The thinner the skin you have, the more empathetic you are probably.
The more open you are, the more likely you are an easy victim. If you are very patient and understanding, it is likely that you will overlook or accept the bad behaviour of the narcissist.
If you are very worried about other people and their needs, and if you put others’ needs ahead of your own, then you may be exposed to the narcissist.
If it turns out that you are such a great person, then it can unfortunately mean that you are exactly the type that the narcissist is looking for.
Then it is important that you are on guard.
If a human being you are about to attach yourself to invades you and your life, trying to rule over you, overtaking you, trying to control you and your actions
— if a human wants to take control of your life, then you must take care.
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Øivind H. Solheim is a writer from Norway who loves writing essays, articles and fiction helping others understanding life, others and themselves. He has published five novels, two non-fiction books and a poetry book.
FICTION: Mosquitoes Go After Thin Skin, a new novel, a story about two men, a woman and the challenges they meet.