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victim, so only see one side of the story. Since the narcissist has presented themselves to be an honest, caring, decent, helpful person to those around them, they just cannot believe that the narcissist has done what they have been accused of doing. These supporters, “friends” or “enablers”, are manipulated by the narcissist to give them support even to the point, that they themselves claim to have witnessed the way the narcissist was treated by the victim, when in fact they have not.</p><h1 id="e3b1">Predator</h1><p id="6d92">Normal people do not love bomb, they do not gush at you with over the top flattery! They do not make promises of undying love within hours or days of meeting you! They do not call you the love of their life, their soulmate without even getting to know you! These are the actions of a predator! A predator, who is setting you up, to take you down. To use and manipulate you, to get whatever it is they want or desire from you.</p><h1 id="bf7a">Truth</h1><p id="4bb4">Narcissists are only afraid of one thing, truth. Which is why they do everything they can to shut us up. Lies, false allegations, threats, emotional abuse, harassment, an

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d the list goes on. The last thing they want is the truth getting out and them being exposed for who and what they are. It’s a massive blow to their incredible ego and shatters the fantasy world they have woven around themselves.</p><p id="303b">Yet, you hold power and they know it and that scares them because once you realize that, they lose whatever power they have over you. So they have to knock you down and keep you down by any and all means. Whatever drastic measures are then taken by the narcissist to achieve this, no matter how deceitful or cruel, it’s always married to feelings of no remorse, no guilt, no regret in their actions, its all about keeping the lies going.</p><h1 id="4ebb">Our Voice</h1><p id="ac60">So what is this power I, or we have that scares them? Our voice, the ability to tell the truth. Think about it…. If our voice held no power, then why do they go all out to silence us? When enough voices speak out it cracks and shatters the wall the narcissist has built around the truth. We must use the power we have collectively, and shatter the barriers and expose the truth of who and what they really are, predators.</p></article></body>

Human Predator

The Narcissist

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Campaign

A smear campaign is a method of damage control that the narcissist impliments when they are concerned about being found out. The smear campaign will involve portraying the victim as the actual abuser with claims that they are crazy, bipolar, an addict, an alcoholic, unstable, a liar, a cheater and if there are children involved that they are a negelectfull bad parent. They will create a series of lies, half truths, exaggerations, suspicions, and false accusations about the victim that serves to undermine their credibility in anything they say about the narcissist.

Supporters

Most times the narcissist’s sympathetic supporters have had none or limited contact with the victim, so only see one side of the story. Since the narcissist has presented themselves to be an honest, caring, decent, helpful person to those around them, they just cannot believe that the narcissist has done what they have been accused of doing. These supporters, “friends” or “enablers”, are manipulated by the narcissist to give them support even to the point, that they themselves claim to have witnessed the way the narcissist was treated by the victim, when in fact they have not.

Predator

Normal people do not love bomb, they do not gush at you with over the top flattery! They do not make promises of undying love within hours or days of meeting you! They do not call you the love of their life, their soulmate without even getting to know you! These are the actions of a predator! A predator, who is setting you up, to take you down. To use and manipulate you, to get whatever it is they want or desire from you.

Truth

Narcissists are only afraid of one thing, truth. Which is why they do everything they can to shut us up. Lies, false allegations, threats, emotional abuse, harassment, and the list goes on. The last thing they want is the truth getting out and them being exposed for who and what they are. It’s a massive blow to their incredible ego and shatters the fantasy world they have woven around themselves.

Yet, you hold power and they know it and that scares them because once you realize that, they lose whatever power they have over you. So they have to knock you down and keep you down by any and all means. Whatever drastic measures are then taken by the narcissist to achieve this, no matter how deceitful or cruel, it’s always married to feelings of no remorse, no guilt, no regret in their actions, its all about keeping the lies going.

Our Voice

So what is this power I, or we have that scares them? Our voice, the ability to tell the truth. Think about it…. If our voice held no power, then why do they go all out to silence us? When enough voices speak out it cracks and shatters the wall the narcissist has built around the truth. We must use the power we have collectively, and shatter the barriers and expose the truth of who and what they really are, predators.

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