The Most Foolish Methods Men Use To Try Get Women

More and more men struggle to attract women.

Recently the number of sexless men has tripled in just 10 years. There may be many reasons for this.

One factor that certainly plays a role is that women obtain more degrees than men and are therefore increasingly independent. Presumably, this financial independence makes them more selective in their choice of partner, as they are no longer dependent on men. Another factor could be porn. Some men might prefer masturbation to a video instead of trying to get closer to women in real life and facing the risk of rejection.

In fact, it just so happens that the number of sexless men increased dramatically at the same time that porn platforms became big.

You could say that the average man has to put in a lot of effort. That’s exactly why I observe again and again very stupid, almost pathetic attempts.

Here are my three favorite strategies:

1. Cat Calling

Rude sexual remarks made by men passing women on the street. Usually “cat calls” are about the woman’s body as a whole or a certain feature.

“Damn girl that ass looks fine”-Guy on the street — Urban dictionary

I don’t think many men have ever had success with this tactic.

In fact, it could even be called sexual harassment. In any case, it’s the fastest way to look creepy and disqualify yourself.

Rule of thumb: If you are interested in a woman, talk to her respectfully or just leave her alone.

2. Buying Bottles In The Club

This is the most expensive tactic I can think of.

Time and time again at the club I see men reseating a table and ordering bottles to impress women. Most of the time this leads to some women sitting down with them. However, in 99% of the cases only to drink for free.

I don’t think a table and bottle service will get many women to sleep with you.

Either they find you attractive or they don’t. Even if you leave $1000 in the club in one night, it usually doesn’t change anything.

3. Sending Dick Pics

It is really awkward to write this article.

I have a sense of shame at the thought of all these things that men do regularly to attract the attention of women.

Female friends and my ex-girlfriend have often told me that they have received dick pics from men. Unsolicited.

I hardly think that many women will be convinced by a picture of your penis. I think that many men overestimate the effectiveness of it, because we men are very visual. Much more so than women.

Just because you would like to get nude pictures of her sent to you, doesn’t mean it’s the same the other way around.

4. Reacting To IG Stories With The Flame Emoji

Flames upon flames.

This is what the Instagram DMs of many pretty women look like after posting a story. Numerous thirsty men react with the flame emoji.

Funnily enough, often these are men who would not even dare to approach a woman in real life.

Again, I doubt the effectiveness. If you find her attractive and would like to get in touch with her, then try it with a few words. The chances of a response are much higher.

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