The Latest Instagram Meme Catering to Our Inner Narcissist
Remember the joy of finding a keychain with your name? Now find it across dogs, frogs, and drinks
I have seen a growing number of accounts catering to that excitement you may have felt if you were one of the lucky few to find your name on a keychain in a gift shop post a school field trip to a nearby museum. In my case, I had a carabiner full of charms that read, “William” to the point where I got bored of looking for my name. William is a fairly common name, and it’s a fairly common name of its Anlgo-Norman language roots. But for my friends and classmates with “non-white” names, they often left the museum gift shops empty-handed and disappointed.
Well thanks to the power of social media for social good, I’m seeing dozens of accounts and creators clapping back and giving people’s names a chance to be seen. Whether you want to know what Spongebob meme you are, or what Kardashian reaction has your name on it, there are dozens of new Instagram accounts all answering the question, “What blank are you?” Not only is this new Instagram trend slightly catering to our inner narcissist, but more importantly, it’s giving people a chance to claim their identity and see their name being recognized.
This Instagram trend matters because #representationmatters
In the past months, social media’s ability to act as a tool for social change has been put on display. BIPOC creators are turning to social media to offer resources and information to both empower and educate. Some of these posts have been more explicitly political and some like this trend of what meme are you are still important in that they’re exposing us to representation.
A name is more than just a name. I believe that our names are a part of our identity that do shape us and define us to the world as well. After all, there are studies on how resumes with more ethnic-sounding names get fewer callbacks for interviews. In scrolling through some of these accounts, I saw names that I never saw on a surfboard keychain at a beach gift shop.
Seeing your name is powerful because you feel seen
Growing up no one ever messed up my name. But I had plenty of friends who sometimes had to endure butchered names or even mockery. As a kid, I didn’t have the knowledge or vocabulary to understand the erasure happening. But as I got older and then entered the workforce I made it a point to always respect others' names as much as I could.
I work in the entertainment industry doing communications and marketing and I often work with creatives from all over the world. I’ll almost always ask them their name and how to pronounce it. I would rather be corrected once than someone feels like they were being constantly being erased by me. Again I’m there to support this storyteller and amplify their message. I mention my work because names are always something I champion for along with their projects.
Whether I’m copywriting social media captions or talking to press on the phone, I make sure that every name is present. I want my clients to feel as seen as my friends sharing a meme of a Beanie Baby with their name across it.
Memes are more than funny
I think this trend is more than just funny, it’s also validating for people who might not have felt seen for a long time. Again, I may have not grown up having my name be erased, but I want to be an ally for those who did.
Let’s keep posting and sharing memes and resources online that empower and educate. You can do both; find your name on a Kardashian meme and then post some links to non-profits fighting for a better world where our names, skin color, and life experiences are seen and celebrated.






