The Key to Snatching a Younger Man
It’s not about confidence or sex appeal 🔑
I n my 20s, I had a flock of men lining up to date me. Biologically, I was ripe and fertile.
Naturally, I was picky.
I’m reminded of this one guy in college who waited outside my Economics 101 class just to ask me out.
He looked at me, all puppy-eyed.
My reply — No, but thanks.
Why?
Desperation — it oozed out of his skin like a bad cologne.
I guess I was allergic to any signs of weakness, desperation being one.
I wanted a bad boy I could chase.
The one who made my 🔥twat twinkle 🔥 and my heart beat faster.
I was a typical, young woman attracted to the smell of lust associated with a bad boy.
I feel bad for nice guys looking for a genuine connection with girls their age.
Imagine for a second you’re this nice guy.
You’re surrounded by a bunch of girls your age not interested in who you are, but the updated, 2.0 assholey version of you.
Enter the cougars.
I met my younger man when he was 25 and I was 42. He’s now my husband and we have a 3-year-old boy.
Before him, I was a serial dater of younger men. Not like I looked for it. It just happened.
My friends over 40 attest to wanting to date a nice guy.
They’re had their share of bad boys and know they ain’t worth it.
It seems that as our eggs start rotting, our intelligence spikes up.
From experience, I can tell you younger, nice guys are tired of
👉 jumping through hoops to get that girl to look their way
👉 girls who play hard to get
👉 having to play cool and uncaring
Ladies, do you hear what I’m saying?
While the younger competitions are vying for the attention of Mr. James Dean, we have the advantage of younger, nice guys falling on our laps.
The old adage that nice guys finish last is true, but only in the eyes of young women.
To us, they’re gems waiting to be tapped.
What’s the secret to snatching a younger, nice guy?
👉 Pay back the attention with a genuine smile
👉 Don’t play games
👉 Show appreciation for their kindness
My nice guy contributed to the three-pointers above.
Now, go snatch ’em, ladies!
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