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            <h2>Six Things I Wish I Did More Of, Now That I’m a Lot Older</h2>
            <div><h3>When reflecting on my life, I do wish I did these things a lot earlier.</h3></div>
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    </div><h2 id="3f88">During that challenging phase of my life, I took control of my emotions by doing the following things:-</h2><ul><li>I started writing my feelings, which morphed into writing about a lot of things and publishing them on Medium.</li><li>I practiced gratitude for all the things I saw, which were wonderful.</li><li>I submitted to God's mighty plan and accepted mum life would soon end.</li></ul><p id="d105">Every day, I would set aside five minutes — just that tiny pocket of time, to outline my expression of gratitude.</p><p id="2a3a">My list was relatively small, sharp, and to the point.</p><p id="c42d">It added some sunshine into my darkest days.</p><h1 id="8983">It would always look somewhat like this:</h1><h2 id="52a8">Three things I’m grateful for today —August 5th, 2021</h2><ol><li>Hearing mums voice in the morning and spending another day with her</li><li>My cat Henry sitting on my lap, staring into my eyes, purring</li><li>Seeing the first flower in my garden bloom as spring arrives soon</li></

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ol><p id="4fbb">When I wrote these down, I felt that I was truly blessed.</p><p id="ca28">Even when mum passed away, I was grateful to see her take her last breath.</p><blockquote id="2c1d"><p>I was also thankful I get to hold that experience in my heart for the rest of my life.</p></blockquote><p id="4362">In the depths of sadness, we can always find something extraordinary.</p><p id="ddbd">If you have experienced the death of a loved one — sometimes that’s all you have to look for — <i>but it’s something.</i></p><p id="4d7d">Will it do you any good thinking of sad moments or the things that have gone wrong?</p><p id="091d"><i>That brings more of the stuff you don’t want.</i></p><p id="3d25">So, for 2022, may I suggest lovingly seeking three things, no matter what, & expressing gratitude for them.</p><p id="9487">Then, in a matter of weeks, you will no longer have to find them — because it will find you.</p><p id="311d">If you would like to read more articles like this or start writing your own, please sign up via my link. I’d love to see you on the other side.</p><p id="2b34"><a href="https://a-dimos.medium.com/membership"><b>Sign up here</b></a><b> for your medium subscription.</b></p><p id="6a07">I get a portion from your monthly fee at no extra cost to you, and it will go a long way in supporting me as a writer.</p><p id="f744">If you would like to express gratitude with coffee, send the love via this <a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/angedim">link</a></p></article></body>

The Key to Finding Happiness in Less Than Five Minutes Per Day

Five minutes of time to gain a whole lot in return

Photo by Lukas Blazek on Unsplash

Every year seems to rush off, leaving us scuffling to catch up.

Now that Christmas is over, I still believe I wasn’t ready for it. It so happens I’m not prepared for the new year.

But I’m grateful that I made it — even though a loved one didn’t get this far.

I learned to practice the art of gratitude when I was going through a hard time.

For six months, I worked alongside as a support person for my mum during her cancer diagnosis.

During the time, extreme stress was a daily occurrence.

I also became obsessed with keeping mum alive. The thought of her death brought on anxiety and overwhelming sadness.

You’re never ready for the experience of death — no matter who it is.

During that challenging phase of my life, I took control of my emotions by doing the following things:-

  • I started writing my feelings, which morphed into writing about a lot of things and publishing them on Medium.
  • I practiced gratitude for all the things I saw, which were wonderful.
  • I submitted to God's mighty plan and accepted mum life would soon end.

Every day, I would set aside five minutes — just that tiny pocket of time, to outline my expression of gratitude.

My list was relatively small, sharp, and to the point.

It added some sunshine into my darkest days.

It would always look somewhat like this:

Three things I’m grateful for today —August 5th, 2021

  1. Hearing mums voice in the morning and spending another day with her
  2. My cat Henry sitting on my lap, staring into my eyes, purring
  3. Seeing the first flower in my garden bloom as spring arrives soon

When I wrote these down, I felt that I was truly blessed.

Even when mum passed away, I was grateful to see her take her last breath.

I was also thankful I get to hold that experience in my heart for the rest of my life.

In the depths of sadness, we can always find something extraordinary.

If you have experienced the death of a loved one — sometimes that’s all you have to look for — but it’s something.

Will it do you any good thinking of sad moments or the things that have gone wrong?

That brings more of the stuff you don’t want.

So, for 2022, may I suggest lovingly seeking three things, no matter what, & expressing gratitude for them.

Then, in a matter of weeks, you will no longer have to find them — because it will find you.

If you would like to read more articles like this or start writing your own, please sign up via my link. I’d love to see you on the other side.

Sign up here for your medium subscription.

I get a portion from your monthly fee at no extra cost to you, and it will go a long way in supporting me as a writer.

If you would like to express gratitude with coffee, send the love via this link

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