The Inherent Wisdom of Polarities
A poem and reflection

There’s no intrinsic difference in the extremes of a polarity, just varying degrees of the same thing.
There isn’t inherent evil in darkness but an opportunity for light to appear. Why does any extreme of the polarity cause pain, struggle, or fear?
A void may come out of the darkest Night of the Soul, but also a state of wonder where endless possibilities may be born.
There’s power in duality, the power to change, shift, and evolve. All potential lives within the polarity and lies on our perception’s point.
This poem was inspired by life lessons learned from understanding the principle of polarity.
Everything is dual; everything has poles; everything has its pair of opposites; like and unlike are the same; opposites are identical in nature but different in degree; extremes meet; all truths are but half-truths; all paradoxes may be reconciled.
— The Kybalion. The Three Initiates.
Once upon a time, there was a period of my life with a notable contrast between my life experience and expectations. This wasn’t necessarily a ‘bad thing,’ yet my point of perception focused on the gap between where I was and where I thought I’d be.
That gap or void can be very uncomfortable, especially if ‘point B’ isn’t an option anymore. So, apart from the unpleasant feeling of emptiness, there’s also a feeling of loss and grief, exacerbated by the belief that ‘being in that void is a terrible thing.’
One day, after having a pity party with myself, I asked ‘Spirit,’
How can I surrender to this ‘void’ and trust that everything will be okay?
At that precise moment, a moth landed on my kitchen bench.
The symbolism of moths is about the principle of polarity. Moth teaches us that darkness and light are integrated co-creative life forces. Although moths come out at night, they’re drawn to the light.
Life can’t evolve without loss and rebirth. The appearance of moths is a positive omen that the sadness we may be feeling is temporary, and new doors will open.
The principle of polarity holds immense power when we realize that opposites aren’t ‘different in nature, just in degrees’ and let go of the belief that one extreme or the other is a ‘bad thing.’ For example, darkness and light are neither inherently good nor bad.
The void may feel like darkness and emptiness, but it also creates space for growth.
Nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning you give it.
— Tony Robbins
How we view ‘the void’ is only a matter of perception. Hence, we can change our point of perception and embrace the endless possibilities that live in the spectrum of polarity.
All potential lives in the spectrum of polarity. Your potential depends on your point of perception.
— Avia
12.28.2023, Carolina Smith. All Rights Reserved.
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