The gentlemans’ guide to safety with escorts and call girls

If you are in the so-called land of the free (built on the backs of slaves, no less), you understand that in most parts of the USA, as well as in some other countries, that prostitution is illegal. However, technically speaking, escorts are only charging for their time and there is nothing illegal about that. It’s just that within that time, it’s up to them to decide how they are willing to spend it with a client. That being said, just like dealing with any “illegal” industry, it can come with its own dangers and challenges that police may not be willing to help you out with too much, unless, of course, you get in trouble as well.

So how can you be safe when dealing with such things? That is what I would like to talk about in this article. Some people may be green to all of this and, fortunately or unfortunately, things like how to be street smart aren’t necessarily taught in school, so it may take a bit of awareness for people to know what they are getting into.

In any case, if one is just starting out with this lifestyle, one thing to do is to try to find an escort site that allows reviews. I understand that some men may not care to hear about other men’s experiences with a woman they intend to be with, but it is what it is. But fret not, you don’t have to read the details, really. Just look at the star ratings and if it seems like there are legit five star ratings from different people, then she may be someone who is a legitimate service provider.

Of course, one might ask how can such sites exist without getting taken down if prostitution is illegal to begin with. Like I said before, there is a legal loophole where the women are technically only charging for their time. That’s not illegal in itself. It’s just that most of them and the men that get there have an idea of what is expected to go down, but legally speaking, they have the right to not engage in certain activities, since they are only charging for their time…

So anyway, if you intend to go to them, be aware of your surroundings. A lot of times, they may be in a hotel room. If they aren’t, you really need to be aware of your surroundings. It may be that there are some guys in a parked car in the parking lot. They may be there for her safety, however, you don’t want to be in the situation where they walk in and rob you or something.

If you are a decent human being, you shouldn’t intend on harming her or robbing her, but you still may want to have some sort of hidden weapon on you, just in case after you get there, she decides to have some other men come in the hotel room and rob you. If you don’t mind people being in your business, you may want to bring your own group of guys or at least one friend or something to be out in your car or around until the appointment is over.

This isn’t to scare you or anything, and it’s probably not likely that things like that will happen, but as mentioned earlier, whenever you’re dealing with such situations, you might have to take your own precautions.

If you want to do more, then, perhaps you can leave things like your wallet under your seat in the car, and only take the amount of money that you need, or even just use cash app or something since that is available these days as well. That way should something go down, you won’t lose more than you originally intended to spend and perhaps they won’t have access to your whole wallet, ID, etc.

You might also want to invest in getting a free number through another app, such as Google voice, in order to make such calls. Unfortunately, I have made the mistake of using my own number before, and when I was made aware that I was in the registry of their network, it showed my name and address based on the number that I used. And if you are someone like me, you’re probably not too keen on people having too much information about you, even though in the society that we live in, it’s probably not too hard to get information on people in general.

Beware of scams

It may be a little difficult for two strangers to trust each other, no doubt, but at the end of the day, you need to protect your own interests.

There are some escorts who try to ask for a donation first, whether it be through cash app or some other means, before you get to see them. Some claim that it’s because some men will call to make an appointment with them, but get the escorts to waste their own time by getting themselves ready, turning down other calls (because they are expecting a client), etc., only for those men to never show up. So they say that they need some type of donation beforehand to make sure that their time isn’t being wasted and that they will be compensated if it is. Obviously, they will say that the donation goes toward the appointment once it takes place.

Yes, it makes sense, and there may be a time that you should concede to such a demand (which I intend to get into a little later), but as much sense as it makes, you already know that there may be some people who will take that money, give you the wrong address, etc. to where you don’t get to see anyone at all. Sometimes it may not even be an actual woman that’s doing it.

Anyway, I know that you may really want to see someone, but at the end of the day, you have to be smart and protect your own interests. If it’s some person that you don’t know anything about asking for a preliminary donation and if you’re willing to potentially waste money, time, gas, mileage, etc., for something that may be a scam, by all means.

However, there is a situation where it might be safer to give a preliminary donation. For such a possibility, again, I would recommend you deal with only highly-reviewed escorts on a website that isn’t theirs, because it may be that if they have high reviews, they are legit and don’t want to risk getting negative reviews for being a con artist. So if they are established, they may well decide to vet new clients in such ways for their own personal safety, etc. so on your end, I would suggest you take due diligence and do your research. Don’t pay attention to the reviews on an escorts own personal website. Anybody can have a website with made up reviews on there.

So only deal with the escorts who have ads on marketplace type websites of various escorts and allow reviews on there. Even better still, you might want to stick with the websites that prohibit the people on there from asking for prior donations in the first place.

Finally, and what may be obvious, you might do well to use protection. I know that some people prefer bare back and like it “Au naturale’” and all of that stuff, but at the end of the day, you’re dealing with people who might not only be strangers (unless you have been dealing with them for a while), but who may also see quite a few other people throughout their time. So it might behoove you to take into consideration, not only your personal safety in general, but your health as well.

I know this sounds like a lot of stuff to consider whenever dealing with getting into that type of lifestyle, but it is what it is. At the end of the day, you have to ask yourself, is it worth the risk? That’s something that you have to determine for yourself. However, if you deal with this lifestyle, because you are considered unattractive, or have difficulties attracting women in general, there may be other options.

Unfortunately, there may be also be some extenuating circumstances which may make it quite rare, if not impossible, for a person to experience physical intimacy with another person, so it’s up to them to determine whether or not they want to go through the process of protecting themselves and going through with dealing with the lifestyle.

In conclusion, you have to determine whether or not you want to take the necessary precautions and whether or not it’s worth the potential risks that can come along with dealing with such matters. But should you decide to go through with such things, then I recommend you be smart, be safe, and be wise.

Thank you for reading, sharing, commenting, and for any other support.