The Ecstasy of Soul Love

The soul is the ultimate lover.

“We signed up to do this dance together before we were born.” — Annie Kagan

Let’s talk about sex. I don’t mean the run-of-the-mill penetrative kind of sex that you’re used to reading about and have probably been practicing for a good portion of your adult life.

I’m talking about unearthly pleasures, sensual indulgences, and exquisite peaks that exist within the deeper dimensions of your psyche — essentially, sex without the … erm … sex part.

Soul sex.

Sound weird?

There was a time when the notion of soul sex would have instantly evoked an eye roll. I would’ve dismissed it as some far-fetched concept reserved for the delusional.

So, it is essential to clear this up at the onset — I’m not writing this post out of a psychiatric hospital. Promise. I am not delusional, either. But something has occurred between the time when I would have found soul sex challenging to fathom to arriving here, at this moment — I encountered somebody significantly.

Someone connected in the soul.

If you stripped away from your flesh and blood, what or who do you think you would be?

Socrates said:

“That energy, or soul, is separate from matter and that the universe is made of energy — pure energy.”

This observation includes us, humans.

Take the atom, for example — it’s the basic building block for matter. Quantum physics tells us that as we go deeper and deeper into the workings of the atom, we discover that there is nothing there — just energy waves.

An atom is an invisible force field — a miniature tornado that emits waves of electrical energy.

Energy.

In the realm of sexual energy, we are talking about a life-force energy fundamental to our humanity. Through our sexual power, we cultivate a relationship with desire, creativity, and connectedness to ourselves and others.

It is through our sexual energy that we learn how to own our sacred human bodies. But we are more than flesh and bone. We are eternal beings experiencing a human life.

The Soul is the Ultimate Lover

Soul sex is much more than just an intermingling of sexual energy and desire. It is the process of becoming aware of a part of yourself that is deeply connected to another — emotionally, sexually, and spiritually, and then allowing them access to look into your soul.

Soul-Merging is the Ultimate Act of Vulnerability

Making love in the soul is the experience of completely opening yourself and surrendering to your partner. It is not unlike participating in a divine soul dance that becomes a fabric of who you are. Once your soul has recognized and united with its counterpart, you can never forget even if you wanted to.

This kind of lovemaking doesn’t feel like biological sex, yet it goes beyond any pleasure known in the physical form. It feels as if you are becoming one with all that is — a feeling of incredible love, connection, and bliss.

Perfection. Completeness.

Soul Sex is Timeless, Spaceless, and Absolute — it is Pure Universal Bliss

Merging with your soul counterpart is the definition of true love, energetic healing, and intimacy because you are mating with your eternal lover — you are blending with a part of yourself that you’ve known since you came into creation.

This deep connection is the reason why there is an element of healing that accompanies the union. Through fusing in soul with your significant other, you are essentially connecting with the love of source energy.

It’s like therapy for the heart and soul.

It’s Like Coming Home

When you allow someone access to your soul, you permit them to extraordinary places and buried secrets within. You are essentially allowing them to:

• See and feel you in the soul.
• Hear your soul’s voice.
• Touch, caress, and entangle your soul with their own.
• Sense your smell.
• Invade and own your heart.
• Know, taste, and excite you in the soul.
• Kiss and make love to your soul.
• Experience you through intricate and personal pathways.
• Love you in your entirety.

Opening yourself to experience this level of connection requires the courage to be vulnerable. It is a gift from the divine, a soul duet that demands respect and honor.

Unfortunately, knowing someone in the soul doesn’t always equate with their outer personality and behavior.

The soul is eternally perfect. Humans are beautifully flawed.

“She is both hellfire and holy water, and the flavor you taste depends on how you treat her.” — Sneha Pal

A Cautionary Word

When you encounter a person and sense their significance to you in the soul, it is natural to become excited, if not a little frightened. So, it may be wise to tread tentatively and always check in on yourself and where your intuition is guiding you.

You must take the time to assess the situation and your soul counterpart in his human personality before investing emotionally. These divine connections can trigger all kinds of pain and mayhem, despite the divinity surrounding the bond.

Maybe that’s the personal growth lesson — the polarity between your soul knowledge and your humanity and finding a way to fuse the experience into your life.

It isn’t an easy path, but I have realized that soul lessons and connections are not always easy.

However, once the connection ignites, and you have experienced fusion at the soul level, change is inevitable. I faced the realization that no other relationship or sexual encounter before was ever deep enough. That no other love compared, nor did it quench the thirst for the deep level and transcendental love that I had silently craved but never knew existed until now.

As I said, what you know in your soul does not always reflect on “reality.”

If handled authentically, true soul union can only deepen as the connection itself deepens. It is a lasting relationship made for continual discovery, self-growth, and exploration, and it could be the purest love you’ve ever had the privilege to experience here on earth — If you honor it, of course.

The Ecstasy of Soul Love.