The Downside of Being Strong

People expect that you can do everything and forget that you are also a human

When you are strong, cheerful, and successful, people think that the world is on your side or worst, that you own the world. They run to you, they ask for advice, money, and time. With your natural kindness, you accommodate all, you patiently listen and absorb some of their pains. Their loads are lightened, they go on with their day, but you are left burdened.

It's human nature to help. It feels good to be compassionate. But we should also know our threshold and care for ourselves first. Don’t give all out because when you start feeling weak, no one seems to care. It’s because they know you can handle it well.

The downside of being strong is everyone assumes that you are good. That you can battle every storm. Everyone asks for your energy. A lot of them demand your attention. But you will be taken for granted just because they know you can do things alone.

To all those who have strong friends, ask them from time to time if they need help. They may be strong but they are also humans. They also need shoulders to lean on. Say hello, say a prayer for them. Send flowers or cakes for no reason.

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