The Disadvantages of Large Breasts in Love, and the Advantages of Small Breasts

Writing this title, I’m taking the risk of being misunderstood. Am I jealous of women with large breasts? Clearly, this is a natural advantage, so why do I see it as a disadvantage? Don’t worry, let me explain, and then you can tell me if it makes sense.

The other day, I was chatting with my cousin in a coffee shop, and the topic of cosmetic surgery came up, naturally including breast augmentation. My cousin firmly said, “I don’t like big breasts, they don’t look good in clothes.”

My cousin was thinking about the issue of clothing, but my mind couldn’t help but think about relationships between the sexes. There shouldn’t be much to say about this. Undoubtedly, under the same conditions, most men prefer large breasts, so having large breasts should be an advantage.

But I came up with a different idea, and the more I thought about it, the more it made sense:

Compared to small-breasted women, women with large breasts bear a greater risk of men changing their minds in love.

1. Reasons why men like large breasts

Putting ourselves in their shoes, just like women prefer tall men under the same conditions, men also definitely choose women with large breasts under the same conditions.

Don’t laugh at their lustful thoughts, just as women subconsciously feel that tall men can better protect themselves and their children, it’s all instinctive for the reproduction of the species.

Neuroscientist Larry Young believes that humans are unique in that, in the absence of pregnancy, the breasts will still develop independently. In other words, women with obvious breast curves, in the subconscious of men, are equivalent to a sign that they have reached sexual maturity. It implies that they are healthy enough to provide enough food for their children.

Of course, in actual life, large breasts do not necessarily perform better than normal or small breasts during breastfeeding. This is because milk production is determined by mammary gland cells, not fat. Having large breasts only means having more fat, and the mammary gland cells may not necessarily be more developed.

However, in times of food scarcity in ancient times, having more fat meant that one’s own nutrition was sufficient. Women like this and their offspring naturally had a greater chance of survival.

So, the instinct hidden in their genes tells men that choosing women with large breasts is more beneficial for the health of their offspring.

As a result, large breasts can activate the reproductive instinct in men. When they see large breasts, their first reaction is related to sex, their bodies will be sexually aroused, or their minds will involuntarily think of some unspeakable scenes.

2. Many men confuse sexual impulse with love.

Because men are more easily attracted to women with large breasts, many people think that women with large breasts have an advantage in love.

Indeed, under the same conditions, women with large breasts can attract more opposite sex and therefore have more choices.

But the problem is, what are these opposite sexes attracted to? Do they want to sleep with her, or do they want to love her?

Of course, loving a woman definitely involves wanting to sleep with her. But the reverse is not true; you can’t say: that wanting to sleep with a woman is loving her.

Many men cannot distinguish between sexual impulse and love, or they simply have never thought about making that distinction. Especially young men with little emotional experience, their hormones are like a volcano about to erupt at any moment, and they are always attracted to the opposite sex with prominent secondary sexual characteristics.

Clearly, it’s just desire, but they think it’s love. This kind of attraction based on physical desire comes quickly and goes quickly. After the desire is satisfied, it will quickly fade away.

But women always worry that after men go to bed, they will become distant and indifferent, and they care more about the stability of the relationship. What women want in love is definitely not just sex. They want to be loved, and they hope to be loved for their soul, not just some part of their body.

3. Small breasts, to a large extent, automatically filter out those men who are only interested in sex.

Relatively speaking, women with less obvious secondary sexual characteristics do not easily trigger a man’s “reproductive instinct” at first sight, and therefore automatically filter out those pursuers who are attacking because of temporary lust.

Men who are attracted to small-breasted women pay attention to their other qualities: personality, appearance, character, temperament, intelligence, and so on.

Relatively speaking, these qualities are closer to a person’s essence and produce much more lasting attraction. Compared to liking large breasts, liking a person’s personality and essence is much closer to true love.

Those scumbags who deceive under the guise of love, since their purpose is to go to bed, of course, do not pay much attention to things like character and intelligence. What can immediately arouse their impulse is their first choice.

This is why, in real life, women with large breasts do not have the smooth sailing in love as we expected, and even the opposite, they often encounter scumbags more easily.

Of course, if a woman approaches love with a playful attitude, then there is no disadvantage at all. This article is based on the premise of love.

4. Small breasts can help to test the authenticity of love.

The magnetic attraction between men and women is definitely not just about breast size. It can be said that in relationships between the sexes, breast size is only a bonus, not a deciding factor.

Breast size cannot be a deciding factor in whether there is love or not. If you really like someone, whether they have large or small breasts won’t be a problem.

If we have to compare importance, most men value a woman’s face more, and than her figure. And a woman’s figure is more about overall proportion, not just the size of her breasts.

A man who despises you because of your small breasts, or a man who is willing to let you go under the knife and endure the risk of breast augmentation, really doesn’t love you enough.

Women are always curious, how much do men really care about breasts? The answer is:

Someone who truly loves you doesn’t care. Someone who cares definitely doesn’t love you enough.