avatarDale Swackhammer

Summary

A family's unexpected rejection at the US border leads to a cherished impromptu vacation filled with memorable experiences.

Abstract

The family's attempt to cross into the USA was thwarted due to an expired passport and new border policies not accepting standard driver's licenses. Instead of returning home, they decided to explore the Canadian town near the border. They enjoyed a night at a Comfort Inn, with the children delighting in a waffle maker and movies, followed by a riverboat cruise the next day. Despite the initial disappointment, the family embraced the unexpected turn of events, creating lasting memories, including a Thanksgiving dinner at a British pub. The experience taught them the value of flexibility and the joy of unexpected adventures.

Opinions

  • The author views the border rejection as a positive turning point for an unplanned family adventure.
  • The family's decision to stay and explore is seen as a better alternative to the initial plan.
  • The children's excitement over simple pleasures like waffles and a riverboat cruise is remembered fondly.
  • The author expresses amusement at the children's energy and the need to replenish the waffle batter.
  • The riverboat cruise is highlighted as a particularly enjoyable and novel experience for the children.
  • The family's ability to find joy in the unexpected is presented as a valuable life lesson.

30-DAY WRITING CHALLENGE / 27 SEPTEMBER 2022

The Day We Got Turned Away From The US Border

It remains one of my favourite family memories

Photo by ben o'bro on Unsplash

It was dark when the car pulled up to the border crossing. Policies had changed, and we were not sure we could cross into the USA, but we thought we would give it a try.

After parking the car, my husband and I unbuckled our sleepy but curious kids and made our way into the building.

Long story short, we were not able to enter the USA. My non-Canadian passport was expired, and they were not accepting Driver’s Licenses any more unless it was an Enhanced Driver License. We had neither.

Disappointed, my husband pulled over to cancel the reservation he had made earlier. Rather than drive back home, we decided to stay and explore the little town on our Canadian side of the border.

We found a nearby Comfort Inn and rented two rooms. One for mama and the girls and one for dad and the boys. Us women folk were exhausted. I hopped into bed and was soon asleep. The boys, however, decided to track down some night snacks and stayed up watching movies.

The next morning, we packed up and made our way down to the little dining room for a continental breakfast. Besides the usual offerings of cereal and toast, the waffle maker was the main attraction for my hungry crew.

Ready-to-pour batter sat next to a flip Belgian waffle maker. You poured the batter on the hot grill, and after a minute on one side, you spun it to the other side. What magic was this? My kids took turns spinning the waffle maker. The front desk attendant had to make more batter. Lol.

It was mid-October. The sun still made a vain effort to warm up the chilly morning air. The leaves were glowing in a variety of red, orange, and yellow. As we were at the tail end of the tourist season, many of the little shops were already closed up.

We explored the downtown area and stumbled across a gift shop. Soon they too will be closing up for the season, so offerings were somewhat sparse. My husband spotted an advertisement for a river boat cruise. The final trip for the season was scheduled within the hour. The kids had never been on a riverboat before, and we could barely contain their excitement.

Racing up the gangplank, they darted around, eager to explore every inch of the boat, wherever they were allowed. Soon we were on our way. For the next two hours, we (my husband and I, at least) listened to our tour guide narrate some of the more historical areas of interest while the kids continued playing Marco Polo. Tired and happy, we returned to our car and began the road trip home.

What started out as a disappointment turned into one of my more memorable family getaways. Even 11+ years later, my kids, now young adults, still remember cruising along the river. We joked about how we got into the USA anyway since the boat had to occasionally cross over the US/Canadian border as it made its way upstream and back.

Eating junk food, watching late-night movies, flipping waffles, a river boat cruise, and eating Thanksgiving dinner in a British pub all compounded into one crazy weekend. I learned a good lesson that day.

Things may not always turn out how you planned, but if you are willing to be flexible, unexpected blessings could come your way.

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