The Danger Of Being Anti-Christian.
If you’re an atheist in the Western world, what’s the first word that comes to mind when you hear the term “Catholic priest”? Come on, let’s be honest. What about “Polygamist Mormon” or “Arranged marriage”? I’ll tell you what came to my mind: pedophilia, cult, and misogyny.
This reveals the dual nature of some of us. Stigmas and stereotypes, while not inherently bad, serve as warnings within our tribes. The problem arises when we single out one group and blame it for all the world’s issues, while overlooking the flaws in other branches of society.
Having grown up in a Pentecostal Christian family, I used to identify as a Christian. However, negative experiences, including encounters with hypocrisy and the stifling restrictions on personal expression, led to resentment. Christianity seemed to have a quote from the Bible for every feeling, predicting eternal damnation for my choices. It’s not surprising that I harbored bitterness for a long time.
At least I wasn’t part of an Islamic terrorist group or a Jesus-killing greedy Jewish community, right? The fear of Jehovah’s Witnesses knocking on my door and the notion of Buddhists conjuring demons during meditation were once significant concerns. We used to criticize other cultures and religions more than Christianity, but the tide seems to be shifting, and a different kind of hate is taking over.
My perspective broadened significantly when I lived in the United States, surpassing the impact of the internet and my travels to other countries. As an immigrant, I encountered others who had faced unimaginable horrors, especially children. Their experiences with religion varied widely, some similar to mine, others finding liberation in their faith.
Speaking with a Burmese girl who became a refugee in Texas, I was shocked to hear that Buddhism was associated with violence. She insisted that Buddhism is not a religion but a state of mind, focusing on good habits and non-materialism. Her family practiced Islam.
A friend from Pakistan cautioned against being friends with Indians due to religious differences. Her family practiced Islam, and her father, an Arabic interpreter for the US government, faced threats from an Islamic terrorist group. These were the same scholars who contributed to advanced math and science.
Surprisingly, there are Cubans living in Israel, and my neighbor, a Cuban Jew, shared her family’s journey. Her grandfather, a Jewish refugee in Cuba, relocated to Israel, but she and her husband, Unorthodox Jews, faced conflict with Orthodox Jews. Their move to the United States was triggered by violence from a Muslim state.
I don’t often hear Westerners criticizing religions other than Christianity. As a child, Christianity symbolized oppression in my world. American television seldom showcases the persecution of Christians in minority situations. Instead, it highlights issues like the child-trafficking ring within the Catholic Church or protests against mosque construction.
While it’s crucial to condemn these issues, it has skewed the perception of younger generations, leading them to believe that Christianity should be eradicated. All other religions are deemed “peaceful.” Have you heard of the Muslim LGBT community? They might protest in the UK, but not in Islamic countries where homosexuality is illegal.
Anti-Christians often point to history to prove Christianity’s oppression, citing events like the burning of witches and scientists, kings raising taxes, and church prohibitions. However, figures like Martin Luther, who reformed Christianity, and the Christian Founding Fathers of the United States, who advocated for the separation of church and state, played pivotal roles in shaping a more tolerant society.
I’ll never forget the Christian missionaries who helped me when I was a poor child in Cuba or the Christian community that supported my family in America. The welfare system, founded on Western values of compassion, also played a crucial role.
Leaders of Christianity have defined good and evil over time, adapting these definitions to improve society. We enjoy the freedoms of the West because of the influence of Christianity. Western values are, in many ways, Christian values, dynamic and evolving.
The truth is, issues like pedophile priests, Christian cults, and misogynistic forced marriages are not rooted in religion; they stem from human nature. Just a couple of hundred years ago, and even in some cultures today, these practices were not seen as evil. We now condemn them because of our values.
