The Curse Of Loving An Underachieving Man!

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d="1e14">For example, an ex-friend of mine used to always brag about the gorgeous, accomplished women who adored him. They would fight over him. They were eager to have sex with him and some of them confessed that they wanted to have his children. While these ladies were very successful in their education pursuits and careers, unfortunately they had low self-esteem. Their lack of self-worth was his only ticket into their lives and their panties. When it came to money, education, and business this guy knew he wasn’t a match for them, only for the insecurities that matched his own.</p><p id="cdb4">Instead of having this same excitement and energy to share what projects he had going on in his personal life, the only project he was confident in was his ability to bag women who wouldn’t have given him the time of day if they weren’t so insecure and desperate for a man!</p><p id="f7e4">Women who are accomplished, successful, educated, beautiful, and intelligent are viewed as come-ups for underachieving men. This is because many of these men have lost all hope in themselves to be successful, so in their minds the next best alternative is to ride on the skirts of women who believed in themselves enough to make something of themselves.</p><p id="681d">Many ladies actually accept this caliber of peasant manhood as adequate enough for a sexual relationship, romantic relationship, or even a business relationship. A lot of underachieving boyfriends and husbands are now CEOs, directors, partners, and managers because their entrepreneurial-minded women upgraded them to these positions they haven’t earned. In my opinion these types of rewards men are handed just because a woman must have a dick in her life is disgusting. I don’t respect men who require women to compromise the stability and success of their brands and businesses to prove that they love them!</p><p id="185f">If you happen to meet someone who is only secure in his ability to coerce women into sleeping with him, watch out! He has nothing important going on in his life, and he has more than enough free time to get you to waste precious time in your busy life to make him feel like a king. Unsuccessful men truly are the vampires of the world, and there is not enough love women can give them to get these men to quit leeching off of them and do better for themselves. Just leave them alone!</p><figure id="95b4"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com

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The Curse Of Loving An Underachieving Man!

“Too many men are too busy chasing tail to chase tangible goals! But these types are worthy of your heart? I think not!”

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Desperate women who are single or have underachieving leeches for boyfriends and husbands insist on preaching that we should give all men a chance, no matter what don’t have, what they don’t can’t provide, and what they cannot add to our lives. Unfortunately these ladies truly do not understand the psyche of men. Their rationale is that love is all you need, so “frivolous” things like money, status, accomplishments, and success should not matter.

They call themselves queens, but they settle for men who think, speak, behave, and move like peasants and encourage other ladies to do the same, all in an attempt to feel better about their piss-poor decisions they refuse to upgrade from. If I were you I wouldn’t listen to shit they have to say. Peasant relationships have way too many problems to be labeled as loving!

Sure, it is wonderful to have a caring man by your side. But let’s be real here: how can he live up to this adjective if he cannot fully express how much he cares for you through tangible means? There are only so many cuddles, kisses, hand-holding, love making, and hugs a woman can receive before she is scratching her head and asking herself, “What’s next?”

If we can be honest, many mediocre men cannot even handle the free displays of affection properly! They’re terrible at making a woman feel loved for free!

Instead of using the goal of romance to settle for a lifestyle filled with unnecessary stress, frustration, arguments, complaining, and hurt feelings, use it to propel you towards more beauty, fun, lust, adventure, and the expression of these things. There is no need to settle for anyone whose existence does not serve you, as they will use your hopeless romantic nature to make themselves feel better about the sad lives they were too horny to cultivate.

What I mean is that too many men are too busy chasing tail to chase tangible goals! But these types are worthy of your heart? I think not!

For example, an ex-friend of mine used to always brag about the gorgeous, accomplished women who adored him. They would fight over him. They were eager to have sex with him and some of them confessed that they wanted to have his children. While these ladies were very successful in their education pursuits and careers, unfortunately they had low self-esteem. Their lack of self-worth was his only ticket into their lives and their panties. When it came to money, education, and business this guy knew he wasn’t a match for them, only for the insecurities that matched his own.

Instead of having this same excitement and energy to share what projects he had going on in his personal life, the only project he was confident in was his ability to bag women who wouldn’t have given him the time of day if they weren’t so insecure and desperate for a man!

Women who are accomplished, successful, educated, beautiful, and intelligent are viewed as come-ups for underachieving men. This is because many of these men have lost all hope in themselves to be successful, so in their minds the next best alternative is to ride on the skirts of women who believed in themselves enough to make something of themselves.

Many ladies actually accept this caliber of peasant manhood as adequate enough for a sexual relationship, romantic relationship, or even a business relationship. A lot of underachieving boyfriends and husbands are now CEOs, directors, partners, and managers because their entrepreneurial-minded women upgraded them to these positions they haven’t earned. In my opinion these types of rewards men are handed just because a woman must have a dick in her life is disgusting. I don’t respect men who require women to compromise the stability and success of their brands and businesses to prove that they love them!

If you happen to meet someone who is only secure in his ability to coerce women into sleeping with him, watch out! He has nothing important going on in his life, and he has more than enough free time to get you to waste precious time in your busy life to make him feel like a king. Unsuccessful men truly are the vampires of the world, and there is not enough love women can give them to get these men to quit leeching off of them and do better for themselves. Just leave them alone!