The Change is YOU

Change is the new constant

Change? Changes in the relationship, in emotions, feelings, and the weather? I never thought I would be one of those who would accept changes in her life.

Yet, here I am, again in a new setting. New place, new environment with an expectation of becoming the new me. I moved provinces again, starting from BC -> ON -> AB with an expectation of believing in the power of creating what I like to see, feel and touch. What I want to see in myself, think of myself, and connect varied aspects of my life in many different ways. It is like a ripple effect. One change in me creates an impact within and around me. Isn’t it amusing to see the clouds above your head moving? Are you not amazed to experience how the wind changes its direction creating a varied magnitude of force? Nature teaches me so much to accept what comes in the way and grow from a moving stationary position. Who said the process is easy?

It brings along discomfort and breakdown of old living and working patterns. I am leaving behind the neighborhood, the people. Advancing ahead while carrying with me the memories wherever I go and reside. This time I live here, in the west part of Canada, AB. A little close to the sky horizon. A little closer to the stars and the sun. The sun shines in AB for nearly 333 days a year—a fun fact.

With the new air arousing the goosebumps on my skin and water tasting differently in my mouth, a sense of settlement is still missing. Because it is not in the lateral appearance of one's outlook where the changes happen, it is purely within oneself. It is 100% inside me. Since the beginning, the change that I am referring to here is not present anywhere outside. It is universally omnipresent within me. The heart needs to change, the mind and the body need to accept the change, and everything else follows.

With a new beginning in my life, I am committed to bringing the change within me. The road is not easy. The fear is still old, but the way to look at the fear is changed. The journey is full of energy and still at the same time. I do experience the change, the transformation. A significant chunk of growth and improvement is present when you adapt to the new characteristics. It should be installed in the disposition so that all that may come should flow within and around.

A few minutes ago, I received a phone call from an old friend who asked me the same. “What is it about the change that brings in the fear within me?” She asked me, “I am getting this new deal on the house in a subdivision that is far, I am so used to the environment here. The gym was so close, I am so familiar with the surroundings, I am not sure if I am ready for this change to happen in my life. It is such a big change.”

Haven’t the shape and size of your hand, feet, and the length of the body changed over time? Surely it has. But it just came to us because we did not restrict it. We did not stop the change from occurring. Then why now? Why do we control what comes to us? It could be a new job, a new career hiatus, or a new relationship. My suggestion is to let yourself flow in what may come to experience what you have never experienced before. It is in this change the shift happens. It is in this change you introduce yourself to the world. It is in this change you get to know yourself better.

So bring in the change today. At this moment. Right now.

Sending Gratitude is the best way to adapt to the change both within and without.

Fam, I am curious to know if you have recently experienced any changes in your life and how you tackled this new feeling, new emotion, or new mindset? Please share with me in the comments.

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