The 3 Reasons Why I Prefer Anal Sex To Vaginal

Summary

The author shares their personal preference for anal sex over vaginal sex, emphasizing the importance of preparation, communication, and comfort for an enjoyable experience.

Abstract

The article titled "The 3 Reasons Why I Prefer Anal Sex To Vaginal — You Can Too!" delves into the author's preference for anal sex, acknowledging the initial pain but highlighting the pleasurable outcomes with proper technique. The author outlines several key points for successful anal sex: the use of lubrication, gradual introduction of penetration, self-stimulation, choosing the right position, and creating a comfortable environment. The author also emphasizes the importance of both partners being fully on board with the activity, stressing the need for clear communication and mutual desire. The article suggests that with patience and practice, anal sex can lead to intense orgasms due to the concentration of nerves in the anal cavity, potentially surpassing the pleasure of vaginal sex.

Opinions

The author expresses a strong preference for anal sex, despite the initial discomfort.
They believe that with the right approach, including the use of lubricant and gradual penetration, anal sex can be very pleasurable.
The author insists that both partners must be comfortable and consenting, with clear communication about their desires and boundaries.
According to the author, the doggy position is particularly effective for first-time anal sex due to the control it allows.
The author rates the orgasms from anal sex as more intense than those from vaginal sex, attributing this to the high concentration of nerve endings in the anal area.
They advise against feeling rushed or pressured to engage in anal sex, advocating for a relaxed and well-prepared environment.
The author reflects on their own negative experiences with anal sex due to a lack of preparation and communication, contrasting them with the positive experiences that followed when these elements were present.

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I love anal sex! Once you get past the initial pain, it’s all gravy. Kind of like when you get a tattoo, getting pricked hurts like hell, and then you get used to it; Just to make sure you don’t bump it on anything afterward.

The first time I tried anal resulted in a high-powered butt scoot across the floor while screaming louder than when my magic tea-set broke in ‘99. Needless to say, that did not halt my love for anal,

1. If at first you don’t succeed

I get it, some people just aren’t Ok with anal, and that’s 100% ok. But there are those people who want to try but are afraid of the pain. That’s understandable; it’s painful at first, just like regular sex. If it’s Something that you aren’t comfortable with, then don’t push yourself; if you’re Like me and have a desire to try it, then there are a few things you can do to get it done.

Use lube. And make sure that you’re turned on beforehand because if you aren’t, you won’t have the sexual motivation to try.

Don’t take it all at once that’s a horrible idea! Play just the tip. Just have him/her put in the tip and have them block the rest with their hand so access is limited. It will hurt a bit because it’s a tighter fit, but the end results are worth it.

Tease yourself. Just like you would during sex, stimulating yourself during anal will keep you lubricated and in the mood.

The best position for trying is doggy. I know, it seems a bit extreme, but there is a reason for it. Have them stay put; that way, you can move and work your body around them without unnecessary accidents.

Try probing first. Loosen yourself up with small toys or even a finger before you try anal.

Make sure the environment is happy. Play sexy music, make sure you’re comfortable and safe.

2. The orgasms are better

Seriously, maybe it isn’t like this for everyone, but my orgasms from anal are flipping in another dimension. It’s intense. And that is because of the glands and nerves in your anal cavity.

The anus consists of two rings of muscle and a literal buttload of nerve endings. The outer sphincter muscle can be controlled consciously, and now that you’re thinking about it you probably can’t resist having a little clench to make sure it’s still there. The inner sphincter muscle is controlled automatically by your body, but as you get used to bottoming you’ll be able to work out how to get this to relax, such as pushing out as the top’s cock enters you.

Because of the concentration of nerve endings here, a finger, dildo or dick going inside and stretching the anus is going to be very simulating. It also means you can achieve a lot of sensation just by playing with the anal opening, so if you’re a top and your bottom is a bit shy to take it, have fun warming up his hole with your fingers (remember to trim your nails) until he’s ready for you to go inside.

3. Being comfortable

I can’t stress this enough; this is the place where most people go wrong when trying anal for the first time. They either feel rushed by their partner or excited to try something new. If those are the reasons you want to try, stop. Take a look at the situation. Do you actually want to? If you do, then make sure you have a conversation with your partner beforehand. Figure out what positions are best by playing with fingers or small toys, communicate about why you want to try anal, and come up with a game plan of how to execute the initiation.

Being comfortable with having anal sex is probably the most important component of all. If you’re not turned on, would you have regular sex? And if you did, would you be turned on? Of course not. The same goes for anal. Foreplay is essential because it gets you to the point where you are sexually, mentally, and emotionally prepared for an experience. Teasing each other for lubrication, or simply setting the mood romantically, is vital.

Climax

The first couple of times I tried having anal sex, it was horrifying. It was painful; I was uncomfortable, we didn’t set boundaries, it was all bad. He pushed too much in at once, and it ruined the experience, entirely. It was because he wanted to, and I wanted to please him. That never ends well. This should be something that should be talked about and planned.

I will have you know, that if you guys are on the same understanding, and you prepare and go slow, it will be the most extreme orgasm you’ve ever felt in your entire life.