That Time of the Month
My Ongoing Battle with Period Pain
Periods are the worst. I’ve stated it there. I don’t care whether it comes naturally to being a woman. If I could, I would gladly give it to someone else.
Why, you may ask? Where should I start?
Those cramps are uninvited visitors that simply won’t go away, and I can’t tolerate them. And the CONSTANT nauseous feeling? It’s like being on a rollercoaster ride that I never agreed to go on. And the unplanned crying? Yes, the trademark behavior of my period, making me cry uncontrollably, is true.
But the idea that we’re effectively being punished for not becoming pregnant really irritates me. What the heck, Mother Nature? It seems as though she’s laughing up there and wondering, “Oh, you didn’t conceive this month?” Here, as a sort of reward, enjoy some agonising cramps and mood swings.
But guess what? It shouldn’t be considered to be a taboo subject. It’s a fact of life, and mothers and sisters both deal with this terrible monthly experience. We need to discuss it, exchange our own stories, and provide one another support. By speaking up about period pain, we not only make it easier for future generations of women but also for ourselves.
The worst part is that working while on your period gets really difficult. There are times when I wish I could just call in sick, stay in bed, and watch a lot of Netflix. However, as they say, life goes on, and we deal with it by taking one difficult step at a time (crying internally and externally).
I salute all the women out there who are aware, who have snuggled up with a hot water bottle, and who have experienced these monthly (painful) battles. We’re all in this together, and even while we may not have discovered a cure for this constant pain, at least we have one another to share our experiences, annoyances, and maybe even a few laughs.
If life throws you lemons, create lemonade, or in our case, if life offers you period pain, make it a monthly reminder of our immense resilience. To us, cheers!
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Hello, lovely men! Here’s a nice reminder that the ladies in your lives may experience difficulties at this time as they go through their monthly cycle.
Picking up some pads or tampons for them when you’re out is a small gesture that means a lot. You’ll get massive brownie points, I promise.
Remember to be more kind and understanding during this period as well (pun intended!).
A little further tender loving care may go a long way for someone who may be experiencing cramps, mood swings, or pain.
Your consideration and help will be much valued, and it’s a wonderful way to demonstrate that you care.
:)
(Yes, I’m at work and in agony)
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