Ten Things I Would Like To Tell To My Narcissist Exes
“The lion is most handsome when looking for food.” — Rumi
“We are to give (and take) true love without falling into the narcissistic habit of only trying to take it in.” ― Criss Jami
I will tell my narcissist exes these few things:
- Thank you for breaking me else I wouldn’t have found myself.
- Thank you for letting me down else I wouldn’t have learned to respect myself.
- Thank you for abusing me else I wouldn’t have learned to educate myself about abusive and narcissistic behavior.
- Thank you for leaving me behind believing you did the best for yourself while you did it for me.
- Thank you for getting married to half-brained and senile women in your life who are now chasing me on Instagram.
- Thank you for emotionally, mentally, and psychologically damaging me else I would have still been around and trying to win you over.
- Thank you for showing me the path to my abode — the one that resides within me.
- Thank you for removing yourself from my life because I would have wasted more time, money, energy, and emotions while doing so.
- Thank you for not believing in me when I didn’t believe in myself and now when I do, I can see how screwed up you are.
- Thank you for stalking me and seeing my growth. I am doing awesome. Having the blast in my life.
“I wish that people would stop destroying other people just because they were once destroyed.” — Karen Salmansohn
*Sharing it here from one of the responses on Quora
Gurpreet Dhariwal is the author of Three books. Her books are available on Amazon, Flipkart, and BlueRose. Connect with Gurpreet at www.gurpreetdhariwal.com