Technique for erotic exploration of a partner “Color touch”

Who is this technique suitable for?

1. First of all, I recommend it to couples who have not had sex for a long time. Sometimes, there are such requests from clients with a mutual desire to resume sex or begin a sexual relationship with a partner. As a result of some event (very different situations: betrayal of one of the partners, interruption of a relationship, the beginning of sexual life, illness of one of the partners, etc.)

2. Partners who are interested in developing in the field of sexual interaction should get to know each other better. Promotes greater intimacy and trust.

3. Partners who experience various dysfunctions as a result of traumatic situations, for example, erectile dysfunction in men, vaginismus, dyspareunia in women, etc.

4. A partner who is simply interested in trying something new in a relationship and diversifying their sex.

The technique has many different options, I propose to carry it out in a game format using color images. A certain color can evoke different associations and complement the effects of perception in different ways.

For example, the color blue is considered to inspire trust, while at the same time it is a rather cold shade and can be associated with safety.

Traditionally, red is considered the color of passion, readiness for action, and there is a lot of open aggression in it.

In contrast, the color black can be perceived by many as depressive-restrained aggression.

Yellow and orange colors can reek of bright and creative joy.

And the green, warm shade calmly pleases our eyes.

Everyone is invited to choose their own color associations and share their perceptions with their partner. What does red or blue mean to him?

The technique is performed as follows

First part of practice. You agree in advance which color will evoke a certain association for you. A naked man lies on his stomach. The woman imagines that she has paint on her palms, some color. Her task is to paint with gentle touches the entire back surface of the body from top to bottom, starting from the top of the head and ending with the toes. You need to do it slowly, soulfully, with love. Ask a man: “Which areas are poorly painted? What color does he choose for this area of the body?” Where he will say, paint over again, after that, ask again. Ask and paint over until he says: “Everything is painted over.” Then, the man turns over on his back, and the woman also begins to “paint over” the man from top to bottom, starting from the top of his hair, face and to the tips of his toes, asking and painting.

The exception is the genitals; they should not be touched.

Then the woman lies down on her stomach and the whole practice is repeated for her. The man asks and paints over.

The exception for women is the nipples and genitals.

Each partner does at least 10 minutes of practice for the other partner. If one of the partners liked it, the practice can be extended to 20 minutes.

Second part of the practice.

It is better to do it the next day or after several days in a row (5–7 times) of the first part of the practice. It depends on the purpose for which the practice is applied.

The man lies on his back, only the front surface of the body is “painted”, including the genitals, any place on the body, periodically returning to the genitals. The penis can become excited and calm down, the excitement spreads like a wave throughout the body, this is the moment when you cannot proceed to sexual intercourse. A space is created between partners, where pleasure is cultivated and intimacy, affection, tenderness are formed and the biochemistry of love occurs.

Then the woman lies on her back and the man does this part of the practice with her. In terms of time, it is recommended to carry out the second part, also 10–20 minutes in each direction.

The third part of the practice.

The man lies on his back, the woman takes his penis with her hands. He puts his hands on her hands and guides her with his hands, showing her what kind of touches and actions will be pleasant for him. The movement stops at the sign of the man when he has a feeling of imminent ejaculation, without leading to ejaculation. The woman again begins to “paint over” the front of the man’s body. When the excitement from the penis spreads to the body, the man takes the woman’s hands in his, places them on the penis, covers them with his hands and again shows how pleasant the caresses are to him. And do this 3 times.

Then you change places. The woman also uses her own hands to direct the hands of her partner to stimulate the clitoris, stops them before the moment of orgasm, without reaching orgasm, and the man proceeds to “paint over” any part of the woman’s body when she lies on her back. Repeat 3 times. And only after that do you have sexual intercourse. Practice ends.

You can do the practice all at once if you want to do it to diversify your sex life. You can do it in parts or combine the second and third parts. It all depends for what purpose you want to try it.