Supportive Wife? Nope. I’m an Adulteress Extraordinaire
Your cheating wife’s reply to your social media post
Tonight you posted on Facebook what a great wife I am. How awesome I am. How I made our family work over 20 years. That you couldn’t have made it without me.
What your post didn’t include is that I’m a cheater. That I started sleeping with other men about six months ago. Emotionally, I was longing for attention from another man at least 12 months before that.
Not a very good wife am I?
Your post was beautifully written. It was all about your retirement from your job of 21 years. You made a good nest egg with it so it was time to do something just for you. A completely different path. New job with new opportunities for you. It’s time for you to move on.
You asked me to read your words before you clicked POST. When I got the part about your loving wife supporting you, I paused. I read on, trying to keep my face neutral as I read about all the wonderful things I’ve done. About how much you love me.
Our marriage is content, possibly happy in our own way. Have we been happy for all the years we’ve been married? No. I sabotaged our happiness.
I was too unhappy with myself with trying to be a wife, mom, and full-time worker to enjoy many things. I hated my overweight body and hated myself.
Once I hit 40, I didn’t care as much about others and started putting myself first. After all the ups and downs, I’ve accepted who I am. I decided to love my body, with all its curves. I live my life to the fullest regardless of who comes with me or not. I decided to be happy with or without you. You don’t have to come along.
It’s why I decided to cheat. It was only ever supposed to be just one time. That’s what I told myself. I guess I am a cheater and a lying bitch.
I’m okay with that.
What you don’t know is that I was getting ready to leave you. I had enough of the dismissive tone, being alone, no sex, all the negative things that you shouldn’t have in a loving relationship. I tried so hard to fix the damage but it takes two.
The straw that broke my back? One night outside a drugstore, we were talking about a news story of the day. I expressed my opinion eloquently and with fairness. Disagreeing with my thinking, you shot me down like I was stupid and ignorant. It hurt me greatly. It wasn’t the first time but it was certainly the push I needed.
To date, I’ve slept with three other men, had virtual sex with countless more as I write this. I partially fell for a coworker because he showed me attention and talked with me with interest and care, something you forgot how to do.
I am not fooling myself. I know what these men want. I know why they are talking with me. And I’m okay with it because I get something out of it too.
I talk with these men so I feel good about my day. Instead of feeling miserable like before. A prison of my own making.
So yes, I’m a supportive wife. I support you moving on to a better job, different hours, and people. Because this allows me to see these men more often. I moved on with other men who can fuck me into oblivion.
And I’ve never felt better.
How did this all start? Go back to how I spent the day with a married man and see how I was reborn as a Cheating Wife.
