Suffering for Art
Conversation with a fellow artist
The other night, I visited an old student at her first exhibition. The work is mostly bad — but her determination to make a living from her doodles shines through — radiating — blinding otherwise indifferent passers by into handing over cash for postcards.
She talks of suffering — she says that she is prepared to suffer for her art.
I ask her what that means — after all — here we are on the Cote d’Azur!
This confuses her — she thought she was suffering already — the six months straight effort that she has made for this show, on top of the day job. Her partner is understanding, but… (the inference being — for how long?)
What are you prepared to give up to realise your dream? Yes — everyone can be an artist but no — not everyone can make a living that way, being as it is, so subjective — so about faith, timing, luck, trust — and even then:
“Why should anyone pay you for doing something you love?” as a friend once said to me when I was starting out.
I quip to my ex student that being born near Manchester (where she is from), is all the suffering I am prepared to take in this life! She laughs.
I wish her well — but, as I walk home, I wonder why the myth persists that artists have to be seen to be struggling — suffering — to be declared legit?
We had both remarked on the fact that men are generally more interested in our work than women — wondered why. After all, neither of us are really really good looking! Perceptions again.
In my case, a woman of a certain age, obviously engaged and fulfilled in her own studio space — that happens to open onto a pretty street full of passers-by. A ready-made audience that I am lucky to have.
It’s the men I end up having meaningful conversations with — over my selection of works on paper, displayed in a way that stops them invading my sanctum. Some of them are collectors — genuinely interested in the work — usually pulled away by their wives/girlfriends who stand, tapping an exasperated foot whilst he tries to engage.
It’s often women who blank me when I say “Bonjour”. They flip brusquely through my offerings, avoiding eye contact — then leave, blindly forging their way forward to the next shop.
(I generalise — not all women! Definitely not the Scandinavians. The Americans and the Germans engage too. Genuinely.)
I find that if a man, of any nationality, stops to chat — we quickly dive into the Big Questions. Life, dontcha know! I do act as a confessional in this way and have considered putting up a notice with “ADVICE” written in large letters! Take it or leave it — if I am not in the middle of a project, I love the opportunity to put the world to rights with strangers — and it’s the guys who are happy to oblige. Often, they are worried about the future — specifically about their children’s future and how they will survive.
I agree. I hope they will adapt — learn from our mistakes — be better, kinder, greener — get off their pocket computers occasionally…I suppose that some men use art as a means to talk to someone — like a barmaid? Most women know this stuff already — and maybe would love their men to ask them for a change instead of confiding in some random image maker?
Mostly, these interactions have nothing to do with my art — and yet, they have everything to do with my practice.
Yesterday, a young French man (they never stop — ever!) told me that my work is beautiful — and he put his money where his mouth is by giving me cash in exchange for a piece that contains my whole soul.
How can I condense my art life into the required Artist Statement of twenty odd lines? How to distil my inspiration, my making — the constant “ON”? The days when you show up and nothing happens — when there is nothing for it but to wash brushes, sharpen pencils — listen to confessionals?
It’s living that inspires, of course — but how to find time for that whilst trying to catch the Muse?
If catching the Muse is the goal — go live! Find it hiding in conversation, observation, travel, meetings, disappointment, and failure…
Yes, but how to fit it all into our construct of the numbers of hours that constitute a day?
Should we not sleep??
Ah — there’s the suffering! I see it now…