How to achieve what you want in life

To understand success, you must first obtain it in your mindset. Being busy is not the same as being productive, and the most successful people are productive with their day within the time in that day and priorities in their life like Family / Work / Relationships / Friendships.

People want to get out of their current situation, and there is nothing wrong with that. The feeling of getting out of a bad nightmare or a belief that makes you feel unhappy and helpless and unmotivated your whole life is a powerful thing. But how you get out of that? How do you understand when to make the right choice? Or when to start? Or when to stop being afraid.

Indeed there is no answer to that. Only the intense feeling of change can make you turn 360 degrees, change your mindset, and start acting, doing things, and helping yourself, believe me, only you! Can change yourself. The most important thing is to help yourself. You have to do that.

If you are in a job that you don’t like and don’t want, you first have to find out what you like. You will ask me how I’ll do that? How I’ll find out what I like? The answer to that is complicated.

You have to sit down to a chair and think.

• What knowledge you have
• What education you have (and what that education doors can open)
• What practical things you know and you can do with your hands
• Who can help you to start
• Where and how you can start
• Thing long term and where you see yourself and life after those choices

For example

• You work in a company 9–5, which you don’t like. You woke up every day, and you don’t tap out of bed like Waren Buffet.
• First, you have to find out why it is happening?
• It’s because of the people there?
• It’s because of your boss?
• It’s because this girl you found out and liked rejected you?
• It’s because of the payment? Is money not enough for the work you do there?
• Or it’s the job entirely?

You don’t like what you are doing from the beginning, and you choose it only because you need the money to survive and make a leaving?

(sometimes is not the work are the situations)

After you find out what it is, you have to help yourself find/make a solution to the problem if it’s the people you can ask to move you to another department is nothing wrong or bad.

If it’s your boss, you can find people to help with this problem within the company/organization, and even if you are bold enough and you have a personal problem with your boss, you can comfort yourself entirely.

Believe me or not, you have nothing to lose.

(you can say yes I can lose my job)

first, you don’t that. You just assume you will because you are afraid, and the mind always goes to the “Bad,” and second of all, if that happens, I prefer to do that than be unhappy and miserable every time I wake up in the morning.

Who knows? One possibility is your boss gives you rise after you do that. But, always remember when you comfort someone, you do it with diplomatically, democratically, calm, relaxing way with a quiet voice openly to the conversation.

(me either if I were your boss and come to my office and start swearing i wouldn’t like to keep you)

If it is a girl you liked and rejected you, this is easy; you’ll just find another one with time. This only happens, don’t be so dramatic about it.

Now let’s go to the essential stuff.

If its the payment but you like your job clearly, you have to find another new way of income to find a second job part-time, which is more comfortable.

I know so many people who work from 7–3 in a company and 5–10 even at midnight as a delivery guy making extra money. What you will do in extra spare time depends on you. You can be a delivery guy, or you can be a writer on medium; this depends on your skills and knowledge. (Yes you can say, but if I do that I will not have time for myself) and yes, there is no way around it! I mean it calmly. There is no other way to make money if you don’t work. There is no easy solution to that.

• Or you will work to make extra money
• Or if you want to have time for yourself, you have to accept that this is the money you make and live with that. (You have a 9–5) After 5, you can be at the gym, eat at a nice restaurant, drink a coffee, clean your house, or have the time for your significant other, friendships, and relationships. The only other solution to take a better paycheck or to have a rise in the same company or find a rival in the same industry and work there if the pay is better.

Now, if you don’t like this job entirely and you want to leave. There is that hard part of finding out what you will do for the rest of your life or at least start, and if you fail in that, you have to find out another thing to do. This is the hardest, and you have to stay down and space out the things I told above.

For example, you work in a company, and you want to be an artist, a painter. You have to stay down in a chair and think I work there, but I like it, and I love to paint. How i can make it my job? The steps go like this.

1. In the beginning, you don’t quit your job. This is the worst thing you can do to yourself because you will not have any income, but the beautiful something in that is now you know I want to be a painter.

2. I made up my mind, and this is what I will do, and I will do everything!

3. Start in this (that doesn’t mean that you will succeed)

4. You will start waking up differently because, in a sense, you don’t “care” about your regular job. You care about how you will be a painter.

5. That does not mean you have to wake up now and be reckless in your job and behave differently. You have to have the mind that I work here temporarily i will still try to give my best behavior and comporting in this job, but my real thing is painting.

Then comes the other part how to start be a painter.

• You have to find out other people that they’re painters.
• Find out how they work.
• What they are doing and how their life is going doing this job.
• Ask them what difficulties find doing this kind of job.
• Ask them how much money they make.
• Ask them if they don’t sell what they are doing?
• If they don’t? See how they live.

When you resolve this kind of thing, most important, you can make of your mind to see if be a painter suite you and if you can be an organized person enough to solve a problem with that difficulty of being a painter. If you can solve it, then you can start.

They say it’s crucial to don’t quit your job because it’s easy to fail.

If you fail to do what you want, that means (being a painter), you always have your job to make money and sustain a living for yourself. Only if you successfully make it as a painter can you quit your 9–5 position where it is challenging, especially in the beginning, and always need time.

Bill Gates didn’t make Microsoft in a day! He needed years of Knowledge, Good Partners, Dedication, Organization, and lots of luck.

I’m sure if you ask him now if he believed when he was 30 to become that wealth in his 60’s he’d answer you NO.

And this is something you have to take in mind when you make essential discussions like this in your life.

You will need good people to help you, and most importantly, you have to help yourself don’t give up. The meaning of making this article is to put in your mind how I believe this work and have the correct mindset!

It’s difficult. Nothing it’s easy, so don’t always put yourself to the limit. It’s okay to don’t make in this time of living, but be sure if you put the correct effort and thinking you can succeed in your life doing what you want, don’t give up easy always give your best energy and self to the cause you wish to make and do. Let others come in your life and help you ask for their advice and always be attended.

One other thing to keep your 9–5 job is that you always have an incoming trusted fund. Every month you are sure that money comes to your account, which means that the banking system can be confident about your insurance, and that makes you trustful to take a loan.

To ask them for help if you don’t have any capital to start is very important! When you don’t have access to money!

The only thing you have to be careful of is to make the right choices. Because, as you know, that money is not yours, and you take them to accomplish your purpose! Nothing else!

After all, happiness and success are something different complete things! Many people and generations tried to explain, and it’s difficult to understand if you don’t have the correct behavior about things and don’t know how life works. No matter what you will do you will never find true love about the things you want because this is how life works and is and if it is that way you must accept it is like the death of a love one, no matter what you do it will never be the same again

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