avatarDebra G. Harman, MEd.

Summary

The Wind Phone is a Medium publication dedicated to personal essays and stories about loss, death, transitions, and grief, with a focus on creative expression and a supportive community for writers.

Abstract

The Wind Phone is a publication on Medium that invites writers to share their experiences with loss and grief through personal essays, stories, and poems. It emphasizes the importance of a safe space for discussing topics related to death, cremation, burial, and various forms of grief, including disenfranchised grief. The platform encourages authentic, heartfelt writing and discourages informative essays, true crime stories, and AI-generated content. Submissions are to be emailed as unpublished drafts to [email protected] with the subject line WINDPHONE APPLICATION. The publication is not a forum for self-help content but rather a place for personal narratives and creative expressions. The Wind Phone's editorial team, led by Debra Groves Harman, MEd, and other editors, provides a quick turnaround for submissions and offers light editing to ensure pieces are ready for publication, while also respecting cultural conventions and personal editing preferences. The publication also provides resources for those needing immediate support in their grieving process.

Opinions

  • The publication values authenticity and personal storytelling over informative essays or AI-generated content.
  • Writers are encouraged to explore their grief creatively, with the understanding that not all submissions may be published, especially if they are too frequent or not edited properly.
  • The Wind Phone is a curated space that aims to maintain a high standard of writing and respectful discourse, removing writers who do not adhere to guidelines or who engage in derogatory behavior.
  • The editors emphasize the importance of a supportive community and strive to build long-term relationships with contributing writers.
  • The publication acknowledges the unique nature of individual grief experiences and offers a platform for writers to share their intimate stories and personal losses.
  • While The Wind Phone is not a source of professional counseling, it recognizes the therapeutic power of writing and sharing one's experiences with loss.
  • The publication encourages the use of content warnings for essays that may be sensitive or triggering to readers.
  • The Wind Phone accepts various forms of submissions, including book excerpts, memoirs, anecdotes, and letters to loved ones, with a recommended length of two to twelve minutes of reading time.
  • The editorial team respects the individuality of grief and the importance of cultural nuances in the expression of loss and remembrance.

THE WIND PHONE

Submissions Information and Boost Nomination Pilot Program

Loss, death, transitions, burial plans, types of grief — we are looking for any topic related to these issues

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UPDATED 10 MARCH 2024. We are a Boost Pilot Nomination Program pub, and we have a Boost Nominator dedicated to The Wind Phone.

Welcome to The Wind Phone!

This is a publication dedicated to those who wish to write about loss, death, transitions, and life changes.

We accept email applications at [email protected] with subject line WINDmPHONE. Send a draft link to an unpublished story to apply. Read the guidelines in entirety, please.

We publish stories and essays of those who are grieving, but also, we publish stories, essays, and poems of those who wish to write about issues related to loss, death, cremation, burial, or any of the mysteries related to death, dying, transition, and loss — personal stories, however. We’re creating a space for all those hard topics. The graveyard? The urn? Disenfranchised grief? What have you got?

Note: informative essays are less likely to work here, but we will look and let you know. We are also not interested in True Crime stories.

We prefer personal essays, and if we turn your story down, please be gracious. We rarely do.

NO AI.

Again, this is the space for ponderings, worries, grief, a recent loss, a long-ago loss, a transition, hospice, burial sites. All that.

We have only removed a few writers from our pubs — usually when a promising writer isn’t able to make changes to correct issues. We want to know you and support your work, to build a longterm relationship! If you are discourteous to editors, you risk being removed from the publication.

If you use language that is — in 2024 — considered derogatory to others and then argue it with editors, you will be removed.

If you engage in reading ‘clubs’ and make veiled references in your CTA’s or comments on stories, you will be removed.

We prefer to be polite, always. We hope you do too.

If you submit inauthentic ‘stories’ that even hint of AI, you will be removed from the pub. We’re not here for churned content. You have been warned.

We are also not interested in self-help.

This is a space for personal work. Your issues, and how you’re dealing with them.

Dear readers — any, some, or all of these stories are about loss

Loss can be upsetting. This is a writer’s haven to write intimately about issues. Please know that before you read here. We are now using a content warning, however, as our essays are circulated on platform. It can look like this.

cw: death

or

cw: suicide

This will be helpful to those who find your essays in various categories. Thank you.

I recognize that experiences of loss and grief are unique and different to every individual.

My friend Sally died in 2016, and a few months later, my ex died in a tragic accident. How I navigated their losses became intermingled, and 2016 has become a year I’ll always remember.

You could say I’m experienced at grief and loss. My parents are both gone. I’ve written a lot in this platform about them. My family losses — of them, my brother, many aunts and uncles and grandparents — are close to me. I hold my people close. I write their obituaries. I’m that person in the family who cleans graves. I’m the ‘last man standing,’ so to speak. It’s an honor.

For your submissions: recognizing that you may feel the need to write about the same person many, many times, please submit knowing we may accept the first few, then ask you to self-publish. We aren’t a place for every three days. This should be a sacred space for that special essay.

Of course, we are happy for you to return on a special anniversary. Hope that makes sense.

Why a grief pub?

I love the humor and stories across our platform on Medium. We need to be able to tell a different story sometimes, though. A more intimate story. Like a handful of wild flowers, picked carefully and placed in an old-fashioned mason jar.

There are many ways you may want to write in this publication. Here are a few.

  • Who was the most significant person in your life that you have lost? What did you learn from them?
  • Are you in early stages of grieving? How are you taking care of yourself? Have there been any unexpected surprises with your process?
  • What would you say to your person? How can you keep them in your heart?
  • Can you help others who are in this process right alongside you? Almost all of us?
  • What have you noticed about your culture’s way of dealing with loss?
  • Have you ever found humor / humour in grief and loss? Can you explain?
  • Loss encompasses many situations — the loss of youth, of a beloved pet, the loss of a job, and the loss of appearance as we age. Feel free to write about any experience of loss.
  • Write a letter to your person you are missing. What would you like them to know? Would you like to tell them about what’s up in your life?
  • These are but a few suggestions. You are welcome to be as creative, brief, or long as you like. No more than fifteen minutes or so, but you are welcome to send me a note if you’d like to do longer.

Email your draft to us at [email protected]

Use subject WINDPHONE APPLICATION.

Draft link only. Unpublished work only. NO AI. No how-to. No informative essays. If you have any questions, we’ll email you back. Include your ‘at’ name on platform.

What to expect from us? We will edit your piece lightly, taking care of topics, minor punctuation issues, or spelling. We will honour British conventions. Leave us a private note if you feel we may miss that.

Please do not submit previously-published work. Write your essay, and submit the draft to the pub. We will work with you to ensure your piece is ready for the world. Please edit carefully before submitting.

We will submit your work quickly. Expect a 24–48 hour turnaround.

Please follow Medium guidelines.

No racist, homophobic, or mean comments. If you leave a mean or belittling comment on another person’s post, you will be removed as a writer.

Also, we will not publish work that’s full of basic errors. While we want to honor your grief, if it’s not edited, we hope you’ll self-publish.

Your writing may take the form of the following:

  • book excerpts
  • essays
  • memoir
  • short anecdotes
  • photos of loved one with a brief note to them
  • A letter to the loved one

Length: please, no shorter than two minutes and no longer than twelve. Exceptions may be made on occasion.

We are glad to welcome you to the Wind Phone. Leave your name below to be added!

Format

Landscape photo only, please. No verticals (portrait). Add ALT text for those listening to stories, please. Use a photo citation. URL compressed is best, with a hyperlink.

At top, headline, next subtitle, next photo. Photo cited. We will add the kicker (The Wind Phone).

Go light on text features — -bolds, italics, quotation format.

We’ll check on things and let you know if you need an adjustment.

All the best to you and yours,

Debra Groves Harman, MEd publisher & editor-in-chief

Christine Schoenwald editor

Kit Desjacques editor

Vidya Sury, Collecting Smiles editor

Ellen Eastwood editor

Chevie Hanssler

Caveat: we are not medical professionals. This is a writing platform and a site for creative expressions.

If you need more immediate help, please contact your doctor. I’m attaching a website with some possible resources. Take good care of yourself.

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