Straight Men — Stop Taking Dating Advice From Other Men
It’s ruining your dating game
Straight men reading this article, you don’t understand women, do you?
And you know how other fellow men always say they also don’t understand women? It’s a consensus that men don’t understand women, right?
In that case, why are you taking dating advice from them?
How exactly could they help you solve the problem if they don’t understand it?
I always had a lot of guy friends and most of them would come over with the most ridiculous explanations as to why a woman did this or the other.
Do you know why that happens? Because they have no idea how a woman thinks, acts, or functions. Emotionally, psychologically and in very many cases even physically.
Let me give you a very recent example — it happened today!
I am writing this article on the sunny terrace of a coffee shop in my city. Before I started, I met a dear friend of mine for a coffee. We’ve known each other for years.
He is a handsome successful guy. Actually, very financially successful. And quite handsome. However, he is single and has been single for a while. He’s looking for someone, but nothing seems to stick, although he is not that picky.
What’s going on, you ask?
You’d think being hot and rich would just get you all the girls, right? Wrong!
Although he has those going for him, he’s way off when it comes to relating to women.
Here’s what happened: we were sitting at the table and at another table opposite there was this beautiful girl. Young, brunette, dressed in red, short skirt. He kept looking at her. So I asked: why don’t you go talk to her?
He said he’s seen her there before and he knows she wouldn’t talk to him. He never tried to approach her though. Because he knows she’s scared of men, dating, relationships, and sex.
What?!!
That was a weird thing to say and I investigated more. How did he know that?
She felt very standoffish to him and both himself and his friend Mike agreed — she’s scared!
I took another glance.
Actually, she looked quite pleasant. And she was dressed in a bright-colored short dress. Obviously, she didn’t mind the attention and by how pretty she was, I bet she was used to it. There was 0 fear in her demeanor.
‘Sounds like you and Mike are the ones who are scared to talk to her.’
That pissed him off!
She went straight to her and asked if she wanted to have coffee with him. She agreed.
They’re at that other table having coffee right as I’m writing this article.
If he had listened to his friend Mike, the two of them would still be having coffees together, bitching about how they don’t get women.
Guys, if you don’t understand women, ask someone who does — another woman!
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