avatarWinifred J. Akpobi

Summary

The website content argues that stereotypical assumptions can cause significant harm and should be reconsidered due to their impact on individuals' self-expression and mental health.

Abstract

Stereotypical assumptions are oversimplified and often false ideas that can lead to damaging categorizations of people. These assumptions are perpetuated by individuals who may not realize the extent of harm they cause, including spreading unfounded rumors and formulating biased ideas. The article emphasizes the personal impact of stereotypes, with the author sharing their own experience of being categorized and the suffering it entailed. A specific example is provided through a TikTok video that stereotypes individuals named Nathan as not being straight, which upset the author's friend who is gay. The article calls for consideration and empathy when expressing thoughts that could potentially harm others, especially since stereotypes can lead to bullying, threats, and mental health issues, particularly affecting children and teens. The author suggests that the pandemic offers an opportunity for parents to engage in meaningful conversations with their children about these issues.

Opinions

  • Stereotypical assumptions are a form of oversimplification that can be false and harmful.
  • People who spread stereotypes often do so without considering the damage they cause.
  • Stereotypes can lead to individuals being misjudged and prevented from expressing their true selves.
  • The personal experience of the author illustrates the negative emotional impact of being stereotyped.
  • The example of the TikTok video demonstrates how stereotypes can hit close to home and upset individuals who are categorized.
  • Freedom of speech should be exercised with responsibility, considering the potential impact on those affected by stereotypes.
  • Stereotypes can contribute to serious issues such as bullying, threats, and mental illnesses.
  • Children and teens are particularly vulnerable to the negative effects of stereotypical assumptions.
  • The author advocates for deeper communication between parents and children, especially during the pandemic, to address and mitigate the effects of stereotypes.

Stereotypical Assumptions Should Be Ban

Do you have any idea how much the people suffering from stereotypical assumptions feel?

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A stereotype is an oversimplified idea — most times can be a false idea. A hole of categorization and even assumptions is among the reasons why people fail to be their true selves.

The ones who are implementing what I call stereotypical assumptions are normal people just like you and me. They forget about how much damage it sometimes cause a person. They spread rumors and depict unreal situations — even worse formulate their own ideas to defend their points.

The people who distribute these stereotypical assumptions are the ones who were gullible enough to believe. They take these points as mere truths and splatter it round the world, and again forgetting how much damage it will cost a person who is under a certain category.

I’ve been under a category long ago and truly I can testify the suffering I went through. Everyone underestimates how categorized people feel — thereby taking stereotype for granted.

Recently, my friend named Nathan sent me a Tiktok video of a man pointing out the fact that all Nathans weren’t straight. In his words:

“You guys don’t want to tell me that having a gay name isn’t a thing? Have you ever met a Nathan who was straight? That’s a real question. Have you?”

When I watched the video, of course I didn’t take it as a big deal — because I have met Nathans who were completely straight, but this wasn’t the same for my friend. He was gay and he hated the fact that the stereotype said the truth about him. I underrated the video because it didn’t mean anything to me; it was the other way round for Nathan.

I’m not saying the right of freedom of speech should be banned or anything like that, but sometimes you should learn to think of those whom it really affects. You should be considerate when spreading thoughts since you never know whom it’ll cause some sort of mental damage to.

In addition, remember that stereotype leads to threats, bullying and sometimes, mental illnesses like depression or social anxiety. Kids and teens are the main victims of stereotypical assumptions and for all I care, your kid could be a victim — he or she may have been suffering in school and you’d be too blind to notice because he/she is too ashamed to admit or deny.

I hope parents can bring out some time to have a deep conversation with their kids, especially during this pandemic — sounds like a good period to bond actually.

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