Summary

The article "Stay Strong and Sober" offers motivational quotes and affirmations to support individuals in maintaining their sobriety during the holiday season, particularly when faced with the temptation of alcohol.

Abstract

The article emphasizes the importance of self-belief and preparation for those who are sober, especially during the holidays when social events can present numerous challenges. It shares personal experiences of the author, who has maintained over five years of sobriety, and provides five inspirational quotes from various sources to bolster the reader's confidence and motivation. Additionally, the piece offers five affirmations designed to reinforce self-care and personal conviction, suggesting practical strategies for navigating social situations without compromising one's commitment to sobriety. The overarching message is that maintaining sobriety is a journey of strength and self-worth, and that with the right mindset and tools, individuals can successfully navigate the festive season while upholding their alcohol-free lifestyle.

Opinions

The author advocates for a strong sense of self-worth and conviction as essential to resisting the pressure to drink in social settings.
There is an emphasis on not allowing others to pressure one into drinking, as demonstrated by the author's past experience of relapse at a family wedding.
The article suggests that acknowledging one's addiction and the decision to walk away from alcohol is a courageous act, and that individuals should not feel ashamed of their past struggles.
It is suggested that not giving in to the desire for a drink can be seen as fortunate, indicating a deeper understanding of one's true needs and desires.
The author believes in the power of daily affirmations and the importance of preparation, such as bringing non-alcoholic beverages to events or planning to leave early if needed.
The article promotes the idea that life without alcohol can be joyful and fulfilling, and that returning to a childlike sense of joy and freedom is possible in sobriety.
The author insists that while affirmations are helpful, they should be used in conjunction with other tools and the awareness of one's personal reasons for qu

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Stay Strong and Sober: Check Out These 5 Quotes and Affirmations to Support Your Holiday Journey

We need all the help we can get when temptation is everywhere.

You feel strong and confident in your cozy, alcohol-free home.

Especially for those newly sober, it’s critical that you have a stash of tools to go to when you know you’ll be faced with enticement.

The first time I quit drinking, I managed to be alcohol-free for almost three months. I felt strong.

That is until I attended a wedding, and the bride’s mother insisted I surely could have a drink to toast her daughter.

Since the mother of the bride was my sister-in-law, I relented, not wanting to offend her. I used that as an excuse to have a drink.

I was weak and insecure and hadn’t fully believed in myself.

Now, with over five years of sobriety, I can tell you that you must believe in yourself and that you can and will manage to be alcohol-free through tempting situations.

Here are five quotations to help you keep your confidence and motivation during this time when the drinks are flowing:

“It is not happy people who are thankful. It is thankful people who are happy.” — GrowingBolder.com.

You will be beyond thankful when the holidays are over and you have been strong and maintained your sobriety.

2. “You either walk inside your story and own it or you stand outside your story and hustle for your worthiness.” — Brene Brown.

Never be ashamed that you once were addicted to alcohol. You are worthy, period.

3. “I always get to where I am going by walking away from where I have been.” — Winnie-thePooh in “Christopher Robin.”

You had the courage to walk away from ethanol and have reached sobriety — stay strong.

4. “Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.” Dalai Lama.

You may think you want a drink — how lucky you are to be able to walk away.

5. “With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts.” — Eleanor Roosevelt.

You know you are stronger every day you say NO to alcohol.

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Check out these five affirmations to support your desire to stay sober and reinforce your belief in yourself.

Read and integrate these into your being. If need be, write them down and pull them out when you need a reminder of who you are — a non-drinker.

Affirmations for self-care and support

I love myself enough to take good care of me. If this means being the first to leave a party early — so be it. If it means having a bowl of your favorite ice cream — indulge.
I give myself permission to relax and recharge. This could mean skipping an event if you’re tired and need the rest. Perhaps a massage is what fills the bill rather than a night out. Take time for yourself.
I do not need to say yes to every invitation. Often we accept to please the host. This is not in our best interest if we need to tend to our self-care — whatever that may be that day.
I will prepare myself beforehand to be sure I’m taken care of. This may mean bringing your buzz-free drinks. You may also insist on going alone so you can leave when ready and not depend on others.
I will lighten up and remember I am on earth to experience joy. Remember, you were born sober. When you were a child, joy and exuberance were natural. Now that you’re sober — return to that childlike freedom.

Being sober is serious business. Alcohol is addicting. It’s serious because it’s a killer.

Yet, life is meant to be joyful. It’s supposed to be fun.

What was it like before alcohol entered your life?

If you remember how it was before you drank, try bringing that feeling back.

Use the affirmations to help you enjoy the holidays without putting poison into that precious body of yours.

Think how you will feel waking the next morning without a hangover or regret of what may have taken place. You’ll feel in control and proud for having maintained your sobriety.

I’m not professing that the affirmations alone will keep you AF. But, they are a tool in your storehouse for strength and a reminder of the person you are and what you want for your life.

You had a reason to quit drinking. Keep that reason front and center in your mind.

You are strong, tenacious, and resilient, and you will get through the holidays maintaining your sobriety.

Remember, your life depends on it.