avatarSherry McGuinn

Summary

The author finds comfort in rewatching familiar films like "The Bridges of Madison County" during uncertain times, such as the transition into a new year following a particularly difficult one.

Abstract

Amidst the uncertainty of the upcoming New Year, the author seeks solace in the predictable narrative of "The Bridges of Madison County," a story of a brief love affair between an Italian-born farmer's wife and a National Geographic photographer. The film, starring Meryl Streep and Clint Eastwood, serves as a source of comfort through its familiarity and the actors' consistent performances. Despite the story's conclusion, where the protagonist chooses not to leave with her lover, the author still wishes she had made a different choice. The ritual of revisiting such comforting films is a coping mechanism during transitional periods, especially after collectively enduring a challenging year.

Opinions

  • The author has a preference for rewatching comforting films during times of uncertainty.
  • Meryl Streep's performance, particularly her Italian accent, and Clint Eastwood's acting are seen as reliable sources of comfort.
  • There is a personal desire expressed by the author for a different narrative outcome, wishing the protagonist had left with the photographer.
  • The author refers to the past year as "the worst fucking year ever," indicating a strong negative sentiment towards recent events.
  • The choice to revisit familiar stories is presented as a form of emotional refuge, highlighting the psychological benefits of nostalgia and predictability in media consumption.

Sometimes, we just need a hearty helping of sap to get us through.

Writing this, the impending New Year a huge question mark in my head, the TV is on as background noise. Specifically, The Bridges of Madison County.

Yep, I’m “sort of watching” the filmed version of the roundly shat-upon Robert James Waller novel about the love affair between an Ohio farmer’s wife and a just-blew-into-town-for-a gig, National Geographic photographer.

I often rewatch films that I find comforting. Knowing that Meryl Streep is going to ease in and out of her Italian accent (her character is from Italy dontcha know) and Clint Eastwood is going to adapt his most pained expression ever…comforts me.

I credit the “known and familiar.” As we ease into a New Year on the helm of the worst fucking year ever.

I still think the farm-frau should have left with the photographer. Too late now.

Film
New Year
Emotions
Self
Unknown
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