Summary

The article discusses the nuances of sending and receiving explicit content, emphasizing the importance of consent and the excitement it can bring to a relationship.

Abstract

The author recounts a personal experience of requesting and enjoying a sexually explicit video from an ex-partner, highlighting the thrill of mutual sexual gratification despite physical distance. The piece advocates for the appeal of receiving intimate photos, such as "dick pics," when there is a mutual attraction or relationship context, and expresses that the excitement of such exchanges is often misunderstood. It clarifies that the issue with unsolicited explicit images is not the content itself but the lack of consent and established interest. The author stresses that when both parties are willing and interested, the exchange of nude photographs can be a mutually enjoyable and intimate experience.

Opinions

The author enjoys receiving explicit content, especially when it's from someone they have a sexual history or attraction to.
There is a clear distinction between welcomed intimate photos and unsolicited ones, with the latter being unwelcome and potentially offensive.
Consent is a key factor in the enjoyment of exchanging explicit content; it should be invited and mutual.
The author believes that the cultural misconception that women don't like receiving explicit photos is incorrect; many women enjoy them when they are from a known and desired source.
The article suggests that receiving intimate photos can make the recipient feel desirable and can enhance sexual excitement and connection, even from a distance.
The author encourages sending explicit content only when it is clear that the receiver is interested and has given permission, emphasizing that such actions should be respectful and consensual.

Some Girls Like Dick Pics

Just ask before hitting send.

That did not go as plan.

The message popped up as I was eagerly awaiting for a video I had requested. I was a bit drunk and sexting with my ex, D. We’ve been split up for over a year now, but now and then fall into a pattered of swapping nudes and getting off while messaging each other. Because I had been drinking and felt braver than I normally am, I made a simple request.

I want you to send me a video of you cumming.

I wasn’t sure when he sent the first message if I would get the video I had asked for, but they loaded right after. I was smiling like a kid in a candy store. I was excited and immediately pushed play.

It was so. freaking. hot.

Watching his hand on his shaft, moving up and down, excited me. He was pumping into his hand, and I was so turned on that I slid my hand into my pants. I was dripping wet, watching him pleasure himself.

When he climaxed, I watched as he made a hot, sticky mess run down his cock. I orgasmed right after, my muscles tightening and a long moan escaping my lips.

We were miles apart but still getting each other off, and to me, there was nothing hotter at that moment. If I couldn’t have him there touching me himself, watching him cum was the next best thing.

He said it didn’t go as planned, but I beg to differ.

Show me your dick.

Honestly, when I’m with someone, even if it’s just a flirtation situation, I love getting dick pics. I love seeing a boner through a pair of sweat pants, where I can only see the outline, or the bulge in a pair of jeans, pressing up against the denim. I want to see your rock hard cock naked and standing at attention, waiting for me.

I want to see how much the idea of me turns you on. I want to see what you look like with nothing on, naked as the day you were born, and ready to get down and dirty.

Send me nudes after the shower. Please send me pictures of your morning wood when you first wake up in the morning. Let me know when you’re turned on and when you’re thinking about me.

I think it’s a misconception that women don’t like getting dick pics.

They don’t like getting dick pics from people they don’t know or from someone they aren’t in a romantic situation with. Too many times, I open up my DMs to be greeted with a cock pic that I know I didn’t ask for, and that can seriously ruin your morning coffee. It isn’t that girls don’t like getting nudes. It’s just that we don’t want to be bombarded with random dicks from people we don’t fucking know.

I know plenty of girls who think getting a picture of their man’s rigid, hard cock is hot as fuck.

Knowing that a few messages can make turn your man on is amazing. Not only does it make me feel good to know that I can turn my man on that much, but it makes me feel desirable too.

Exchanging nudes will always be one of my favorite pastimes, whether my partner and I are thousands of miles apart or just in different rooms.

It creates an excitement inside me that turns me on in a way that nothing else can.

Don’t be shy, send a dick pic.

Of course, when I tell you to send a dick pic, I mean to a woman that actually wants to see your dick. That is the difference between a girl wanting to see your nudes and not wanting to see them.

There is no reason to slide into a girl’s DMs when you aren’t invited. But if she’s your girl and you want to spice things up, drop your draws and show her what you’re working with. As long as you’ve got permission, you won’t regret it.