Six Signs She’s High Maintenance but Low Value

How to immediately spot leeches.

I hear a lot of men complain that their girlfriend or wife suddenly changed after they moved in together or have dated for a considerable amount of time.

When you met her, she was living in an exquisite apartment. She drives a BMW, wears fancy designers clothing, travels to different parts of the world.

She is pretty, no doubt, got boobs and a big ass. She told you she is a realtor, but she never goes out to hunt for clients. Maybe she even speaks three languages fluently.

She’s hot. And even does a doggy comfortably in your Lamborghini. But after dating her for a while, you check your monthly account statement; you are shocked by how low your monthly saving is.

You realize the frequent expensive dinners and shopping you spent on her has left your account in the red.

Now you start to recall she has never spent a dime on you. She doesn’t contribute to your well-being and financial involvement. The only thing you have benefited from her is good sex (if any) and the pleasure of her company.

Men find themselves in this situation all the time, and then they accuse all women of being gold diggers and sluts.

Listen up man!

You picked yourself a low-value woman. She is not going to contribute to your work, career, or business because she’s got nothing in her brain to contribute.

Most men are intimidated by high-class women, so they reduce their worth to settling for low-value women. If you are in this category of men, that’s cool.

There is nothing bad in dating women who are beneath you. Some low-value women are willing to change and be better. Some can actually be good partners. There are those ready to ride and die with you.

Sadly, most low-value women are used as come up women. They give up their friends, family, or career ambition to support their man’s career.

I’d admire these women’s strength and loyalty, but they can do better by protecting their integrity.

But man, you must understand all women aren’t the same. While there are those willing to tolerate any shit thrown at them in relationships, there are those who won’t give a shitty guy the time of day.

That your girlfriend or wife is sexy and attractive does not make her high valve. In fact, she might be low value, and here is how you spot them. The six signs of low-value women:

1. She lacks self-confidence

If she is constantly seeking attention and approval, that’s a dead giveaway. A trait of a low-value woman is insecurity.

A woman with a lack of self-value feels insecure in any relationship. She operates out of fear, and that fear is losing a man.

When a woman constantly seeks validation and approval from a man, she’s indirectly telling him, she won’t be okay if he leaves because her well-being depends on him.

A woman with confidence is rarely insecure. She knows her worth, accepts her flaws, and does not seek validation from anyone.

2. She’s lazy and materialistic

Low value women often have the makeover of high-class women. They look elegant and bossed up. When you take them out on a date, they order the most expensive item on the menu.

The problem with these living rich lifestyle is that they don’t seek to earn that lifestyle by themselves, but they expect to freeload on men.

These women have a huge case of entitlement mentality. They think men are responsible for their well-being. They are dependent on a man’s time, money and connection.

3. Self-improvement is not in her dictionary

If you are with a low-value woman, she doesn’t have an option or choice. She likes whatever you like and doesn’t have a passion for anything.

She eats junk. She does not exercise or make an effort to improve her physical and mental well-being. She is not driven, motivated, and career-minded.

These women have no intelligence, nor are they goal-oriented. And they are usually intimidated by a male partner who has ambitions and aspirations.

Dating a low-value woman can drain the life out of a man. However, some low-value men will like this type of woman because their submissive nature boosts their ego.

But, high-value men like Sigmas and Alphas will find low-value women unattractive.

4. She has a victim mentality

Women who play the victim display one of the lowest of low-value traits. On your first date, she’s already sharing how Dick and Donald hurt her in the past.

She wears her baggage like a badge, blaming the men in her previous relationship for ruining her life and hoping that the men in her present and future will somehow make up for her losses.

Women who value themselves do the inner work and take accountability instead of playing the blame game.

When a woman does the inner work and heals past wounds, she will find herself not willing or needing to share her past with every Dick, Tom, or Harry.

5. She desperately tries to win you over

Women of low self-worth crave a high feeling of being desired and loved. She uses emotions instead of good common sense when it comes to falling in love.

A woman who does not value herself often falls in love fast and attaches easily. After one or two dates, she is ranting about Mr. Marvelous. Her happiness is tied to the new stranger, who is more or less a golden meal ticket.

High value women take the time to learn how to be truly feminine women. But they do not use those qualities to attach themselves to a man.

If your notice she consistently ignores your bad habits and acts cool when offended. There is a chance she’s pretending to be in love with you. A woman who deeply loves herself does not give her heart away recklessly.

6. She ties her value to sex

Women who operate on a low-value frequency withhold sex for two reasons. One, she wants the commitment first. She will give you access to her vagina if you first give her the girlfriend title.

Two, she believes men do not respect women who give up sex easily. So she plays hard to get to confuse men.

If she’s exchanging sex for your birthday gifts or vacation trip or uses sex to entice you into doing something for her, that’s a sign she has low value.

Women who have a high sense of worth understand that their value is not in their vagina. They know that their body is theirs and that they can do whatever they want with it based on their desires, wants, or needs.

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