SUPPORTIVE COMMUNICATION
Show Some Wow!
How to close the gap of longing
This endless longing
Not a word
Not a gesture
Not a gift
Can fill the gap
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Not a well done
Not a thumbs up
Not an ice cream
Can make it heal
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The moments of hearing you should have done better
The moments of seeing a shaking head
and hearing a desperate sigh
Have created a gap
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Not enough
words of appreciation
Not enough
gestures of admiration
Never a celebration
however small
showing you’ve done a great job
- *
They would have given you the confidence to keep trying
To show your hard work
and talk about it with a smile
without longing for
a word
a gesture
a gift
telling you
you’re doing great
however small
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Thank you for reading,
PS Good to know:
The magic ratio is 5:1
To happily deal with one negative, it’s good to see/hear/taste five positives
Fun fact: encouraging smiles, nods, and small words like ‘wow!’ count as positive. So, it’s simple! ❤
Bye, smile, Ella
Dutch writer
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