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eing a shaking head</p><p id="9998">and hearing a desperate sigh</p><p id="3d94">Have created a gap</p><ul><li></li></ul><p id="0b9a">Not enough</p><p id="4698">words of appreciation</p><p id="cc56">Not enough</p><p id="d63d">gestures of admiration</p><p id="5cbc">Never a celebration</p><p id="64c2">however small</p><p id="37e5">showing you’ve done a great job</p><ul><li></li></ul><p id="0080">They would have given you the confidence to keep trying</p><p id="b3c1">To show your hard work</p><p id="c184">and talk about it with a smile</p><p id="e48e">without longing for</p><p id="081d">a word</p><p id="4eca">a gesture</p><p id="f93c">a gift</p><p id="348a">telling you</p><p id="e045">you’re doing great</p><p id="45f7">however small</p><ul><li></li><li></li></ul><p id="a539"><i>Thank you for reading,</i></p><p id="cb1e"><i>PS Good to know:</i></p><p id="481f"><i>The magic ratio is 5:1</i></p><p id="2039"><i>To happily deal with one negative, it’s good to se

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e/hear/taste five positives</i></p><p id="2b5f"><i>Fun fact: encouraging smiles, nods, and small words like ‘wow!’ count as positive. So, it’s simple! ❤</i></p><p id="0a18"><i>Bye, smile, Ella</i></p><p id="3fd6">Dutch writer</p><div id="cb40" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/a-few-words-will-do-the-uplifting-trick-e1e65409f89c"> <div> <div> <h2>A Few Words Will Do The Uplifting Trick</h2> <div><h3>What makes us shine? Know how to be uplifting.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*fkqV078Dgy0RM6MI)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="7f8e"><i>If you want to support me and a great cause, please click <a href="https://ko-fi.com/elladejong">HERE</a></i></p></article></body>

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Show Some Wow!

How to close the gap of longing

No matter what your achievements are, your work does matter: well done! Photo by Бодьсанал Boogie on Unsplash

This endless longing

Not a word

Not a gesture

Not a gift

Can fill the gap

  • *

Not a well done

Not a thumbs up

Not an ice cream

Can make it heal

  • *

The moments of hearing you should have done better

The moments of seeing a shaking head

and hearing a desperate sigh

Have created a gap

  • *

Not enough

words of appreciation

Not enough

gestures of admiration

Never a celebration

however small

showing you’ve done a great job

  • *

They would have given you the confidence to keep trying

To show your hard work

and talk about it with a smile

without longing for

a word

a gesture

a gift

telling you

you’re doing great

however small

  • *
  • *

Thank you for reading,

PS Good to know:

The magic ratio is 5:1

To happily deal with one negative, it’s good to see/hear/taste five positives

Fun fact: encouraging smiles, nods, and small words like ‘wow!’ count as positive. So, it’s simple! ❤

Bye, smile, Ella

Dutch writer

If you want to support me and a great cause, please click HERE

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