Should I leave or stay?
Why does a situation arise when a relationship “holds” you, although you understand perfectly well that this is the end? What is this magical “glue” that doesn’t let you go and you continue to be in an uncomfortable relationship? There may be many reasons, but I will give only a few of them: ✅ Habit . When partners long-term time live Friend With friend , okay know Friend friend , and comfort And stability are valued them Very high . Parting means necessity change something V his life , go out from zones comfort But who wants to lose this comfort? ✅ Feeling fear Here Can divide conditionally , into 2 types fear ( although Can And more ). 1. Internal fears A Where I further Shall I go ? A What me will he love this ( wow ) ? How live further ? A all of a sudden will worse ? AND T . d . 2. Fear convictions By attitude To to yourself . Here I I say about reaction partner on what You want to break relationship . Aggression , revenge , anger or accusations V your address . ✅ Now We smoothly let’s move on To such possible option How manipulation . Have you heard some day “I Not I can do it without you!” or “If you leave me, I will do something to myself!”? So this is just manipulation towards you. Why does your partner manipulate? Naturally he is afraid, and he is afraid of exactly the same thing that you might be afraid of. ✅ Lastly I decided leave “upbringing” . Why V end ? Because What here Can speak a lot of . But I will try briefly . Scenario . WITH childhood We we see With you picture before through our eyes parents , relatives relatives And others , with by whom You live while being more small . You naturally You absorb everything like a sponge and reproduce it in adulthood. “If you endure it, you will fall in love!” or “This is my cross and I must bear it” and other scenarios that could influence why you are not ready to leave the relationship.