She’s Living on the Border
Of Ukraine and Russia, helping animals
I have two guaranteed respites a week from caretaking of my husband right now, Tuesday and Thursday mornings for an hour or so.
Great people come into the house to help out so I can go out.
I use that time to attend a class of Slavic folkloric dances I’ve dedicated myself to since 2014 when Gulya, the teacher, showed up at our gym. Gulya is from Belarus, originally.
A few months ago I would have described the class as “Russian folkloric dances” but I don’t want to give that culture all the credit for dances. It seems to be full of itself right about now, from the outside looking in.
Everyone asks Gulya about the current war in Ukraine, about her family back in Belarus. She has a niece living in Ukraine, on the part of the border not vulnerable, at the moment anyway. But of course, she’s worried about her niece.
Gulya watches the news and cries every night, she said. She taught us a traditional dance from Ukraine and struggled to smile. Her playlists have changed. No more Russian lyrics.
We took up a collection for her niece, who is a dedicated animal lover. Gulya sent her our donation and received photos on her phone of how her niece is using the money: to feed and rescue the pets and farm animals that have been abandoned.
Once I heard a judge in a U.S. court say that she had been lenient to the homeless person she saw outside the court everyday because she saw him share his food with an abandoned dog.
“It takes a lot to share with an animal when you have nothing,” said the Judge.
There are good people all over the world who need support. Right about now.