Sharing Your plans Could Be The Reason Of Unachieved Goals

This is why you must shut your mouth

I tell you why you shouldn’t share your plans not even with your family, friends, and perhaps your partner unless he is not the supportive one.

I was the kind of person who can’t digest any single thoughts, plans, till my own. I wanted to share everything with my closed ones so, that they’ll feel proud of me. I made plans or did something good for my future progress and then just start to share it with everyone. Unless I suffered this.

But none of them take it as seriously as I expected from my family and friends and my friends always taken me as a joke and this happens again and again.

I know, right now you are like “ why should you need to tell them? you stupid” but you know that “taking action is more difficult than think”

When you starting share each page of your dream regarding your goals and the other side response is far different or unexpected than your expectation.

It immediately breaks your confidence, gives you negative wives that you just can’t do. This sort of personal nature is always looking for suggestions and appreciation from others.

It’s a fact people liked it when they heard good about them and it is obvious no one wants harsh words for them, right? A simple example is when you cheer for a player this generates more positive energy and confidence for him and his performance increase.

But when you failed to get those words, your capacity to do work is starting to decrease and you can’t achieve your goal with this negative energy.

Solution for unachievable goals to be achievable

Stop getting greedy for appreciation

Getting greedy for appreciation is the root of start sharing your plans with others. If you want appreciation you can get it by the achievement of your goal, you don’t need to share everything or expect others to take your hard work seriously.

You just need to focus on yourself and understand once you achieved that particular goal than you don’t need to share anything with anyone.

You can write on paper and paste anywhere in your room which dedicated you, not to greedy for any kind of appreciation from anyone and make these words your wallpaper of the phone. I know it seems so funny but it works. otherwise quote doesn’t exist.

These little things are so effective that remind you every time. and make you greedy for your achievement not for appreciation for your hard work.

So that later the appreciation will be endless.

Become a Mysterious One

When I realized sharing my goals with others doesn’t make any difference in my efforts towards my goal except give despair. SO, I decided to turn myself into a mysterious person and, believe me, it was not that easy when you are such a talkative person.

The most interesting thing about becoming a mysterious person that people desperately want to know about your life “ what kind of person is he, What his goal is .. endless ” it creates a great curiosity for you. and the best part is you’ll enjoy this with confidence.

Turn yourself into a mysterious one is actually an advantage for you. Want to know how? Well, you’ll be able to establish a new personality that absolutely gives you the attention of your friends.

How is the feeling of becoming a guy who’s advice everyone follows and people interesting in whom, that's exactly it gives you

Show more than tell

In simple words just stop telling people what you are looking for, planning for and what you wanna achieve, the more you tell them the less they believe in you.

Imagine a person come to you whenever just talk about he wanna do this and that, he'll achieve this and so many things, what your view for him “ he is just overconfident and doesn’t do anything” the same will goes for you.

Showing them by your performance and achievement is the apex thing you can do, telling them will make a tiny difference, neither in you nor in their behavior for you.

Respect your words

Well, this is a valuable thing to learn, my mom used to tell me “ Always speak where is necessary” that plays a crucial role in all of this.

telling someone something which is not valuable for them or in which they are not even interested and what doesn’t goes with that time and occasion is worthless. So, it’s better to stretch your mouth with respect. isn’t good?

Your words represent your willingness, feelings that is more valuable than their remarks, just don’t put them in such a garbage place where it values nothing.

Faith in yourself

The moment when you stop sharing your plans, you’ll create the strongest bond with yourself. when I was going through this, also faced many difficulties to recreate my personality but one of the best things was the faith, I had that time in myself, gives me so much confidence not even to turn me into a new version of mine even to achieve my goal.

As you faith in God in the same way faith in yourself, your performance, your hard work, your efforts. belief is the greatest thing that encourages you to keep going without any notice to this unnoticeable situation.

Many philosophers believe, unless a personal faith in himself, he can’t be motivated and dedicated to achieving what he is looking for.