Sex in Front of the Mirror

Is where beginners can explore voyeurism and exhibitionism.

You walk by the mirror and stop to look at your reflection admiringly. You haven’t looked this put together in a while, so you check yourself out and do a little turn to see how the new jeans look on you from behind. You then think of how hot you would look in a butt-selfie right now, and so you hike those jeans up good and start snapping away. Suddenly, you’re excited and think to yourself: Who of my friends should I send this sexy pic to? Does every woman enjoy doing this or only exhibitionists like me?

Actually, taking sexy selfies is just the icing on the cake. As a proud and seasoned exhibitionist, there was a time when I was shy. I was shiny and new.

Just how did I discover how much I like being watched?

My partner taught me: with the mirror.

That’s right. Sex in front of the mirror is what made me realize what an exhibitionist I truly am. But I never would have realized this fetish, unless my partner was a voyeur. He is the one who wanted me to have sex in front of the mirror to see my goods from all angles.

If you’re a single or a couple who is curious about exploring voyeurism and exhibitionism, I encourage you to try having sex in front of the mirror — and often. I mean often enough that it becomes second nature to you.

If you’re not comfortable with the nudity of you and your partner while having sex, then how on earth can you expect to be comfortable with the nudity of others?

Sex in Front of the Mirror Increases Sexual Pleasure

There are so many reasons why sex in front of the mirror adds spice to the bedroom. From playing with voyeurism and exhibitionism in the privacy of your own home to seeing your partner in a new perspective, you can’t go wrong. This is because you can see the whole person from all angles rather than your usual perspective.

In changing perspectives your level of intimacy can also increase. Suddenly couples are able to make eye contact and watch one another’s reactions at times when it would otherwise have been impossible.

My favorite position for mirror sex is doggy style. This way you have the ability to make eye contact and lean against a table for comfort. Then again, the second runner-up is when my partner sits on the edge of the bed and I sit down on him facing outwards — in reverse cowgirl.

I definitely enjoy being more of an exhibitionist in the role of reverse cowgirl when in front of the mirror. Then I can watch myself when I want to, while also watching how my partner looks at me.

Wrap Up

Sex in the mirror is fun for everyone, but it can especially be a stepping stone or an educational tool for those curious about exploring exhibitionism or voyeurism. Though the practice of having sex in the mirror with your partner is one that requires intimacy, trust, and respect so that you can really let go and have some fun. I would not recommend sex in front of the mirror with a new lover, as the two of you have enough to navigate in getting to know one another. But once the dust has settled, and you decide to take it to the mirror — don’t be shy.

Go for the power of eye contact.

Go for the power of dirty talk while looking at one another in the mirror through your reflection.

You got this!

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