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eing.</p><p id="bc8d">Finding a life purpose is the modern-day excuse of the lazy. You already know your purpose in life.</p><h1 id="17da">I run after money.</h1><p id="3786">People might hate me for this but I don’t have to care.</p><p id="fa04">Money reduces worries. Money avoids unnecessary struggles. Money buys better feelings that matter more. Money can save someone’s breath from collapsing. Money unlocks freedom.</p><p id="64d1">Freedom to not have to care about spending $2 more for someone’s birthday gift you love. Freedom of not having to worry about medical bills of a family emergency. Freedom to have the confidence to be by your parent’s side when they are in hospital and you don’t yet know why because they never visited the doctor for a checkup.</p><h1 id="c69b">If Reciprocity Is Real, What’s for Your Loved Ones?</h1><p id="3290">You don’t feel or realize this.</p><p id="d971">Imagine laying down straight on the road and 93 buildings falling to your body at a high speed altogether. That’s the pain your mother had to go through to bring you to earth.</p><p id="f6ef">A shock that’s fun and feels good is called orgasm. A shock that’s a pain but feels great is called mother’s love for you you can’t ever fathom.</p><p id="81d6">Your dad and mom suffer throughout their life. They lose their youth, time, passion, dreams— everything for you. In the end, they’ll die and you won’t care. Or when they’re old, you’ll push them to some old-age home and your face to them gets forever rare.</p><p id="e90f">What do your parents expect and get for giving their everything away for you? Think about it.</p><h1 id="78c3">Be the reason for their “real” smile.</h1><p id="a273">A husband and wife smile the least after becoming parents. There, I said it.</p><p id="cb02">Your parents are likely the same. And you know it. You might not know why. Because your smile becomes their smile.</p><p id="e322">How about this? Do whatever you d

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o so you be the reason for your parent’s smile. So you are the reason for their first “real” smile in front of you. So you are the reason for them smiling after a long time. They lost everything for you to you raising you, anyway.</p><h1 id="b0a7">This Is the Worst However</h1><p id="81c1">I always run so much after money and success that I spend the least time with family, even though I am blessed I can. That’s the worst tragedy of my life.</p><p id="50f7">Choose family over money. Then, earn money for the family.</p><h1 id="0039">The First True Purpose of Life</h1><p id="f3b6">Your parents can die anytime without notice. Make them proud of giving you birth at least once.</p><p id="c5a9">All they wanted to do is live their life with you through you because they lost everything for you.</p><p id="da84">Your parents are the VIP person in your life. Not having a life purpose is an excuse. Change it with a VIP excuse: my family is my greatest purpose.</p><p id="ec88">You can choose to stop caring about unnecessary people-pleasing and worry about family-happiness-making.</p><p id="d0be">You don’t need people who make you feel suck in your life, anyway. Your parents are your most precious NFT.</p><p id="6edc">You are doing what you are doing to make them work less. You aren’t as selfish as people say you are.</p><blockquote id="b8bd"><p>I’m not smart. Life makes me smart sometimes. I share the lessons with a personal story in less than 100 words for You.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="a9b6"><p>I don’t know when you’ll need me the most so I’ll post whenever I can best. Yes, I collect your email address because I want You.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="df1b"><p>For subscription: <a href="https://shajedulkarim.substack.com/">You</a> Newsletter. Always active. Always free. Always for You. <a href="https://shajedulkarim.substack.com/welcome">Here you go</a>.</p></blockquote></article></body>

Self-published Stories Can Still Be Chosen for Further Distribution

This is good news for writers who worry about curation

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Medium stories that meet the criteria to receive extra distribution on the platform are marked Chosen for further distribution on the stats page. This label is coveted by Medium writers because it means that their stories are being curated and promoted throughout the platform and/or in the Medium Daily Digest sent out via email to Medium members.

What does it take to have your stories curated?

Medium looks for quality content that includes new ideas, unique perspectives on a topic, value-added writing, and stories without a bunch of grammatical errors and typos, among other criteria.

Be sure your story is cleaned up sufficiently to make curation. Proofread and write to engage the readers while giving readers something of value in your writing.

These must-haves along with taking care to write relevant titles and subtitles that draw readers’ attention and including eye-catching images are good basic guidelines to follow to get stories curated. But, it has also helped many writers to be accepted to publications and posting their stories with these publications to gain more exposure.

But, do not fret if you have been rejected time and time again by publications because fortunately, Medium gives writers the option of self-publishing their stories.

Self-publishing and Curation

To self-publish a story all you need to do is click the green Publish button at the top of the page, add tags if you haven’t already done so, and hit Submit.

That’s it!

Now, your story is visible on the platform for readers to find and see. Self-published stories are still picked up by the Medium algorithm, they still come up in searches, and they still come up in the feed under the tags you’ve chosen or in the feeds of people who follow you.

The best news though is that the curation team (or curation algorithm if that’s the way it’s done, nobody knows) still considers self-published stories as well as those published with publications.

I have published stories myself when they have been rejected by publications, especially when I first started writing on Medium, and I’ve had some of them chosen for further distribution.

But then I got an idea to start my own publication, Nova Thinker, as a place to publish my rejected stories from other publications because I wanted to have them in a centralized place. And, I have had plenty of my stories self-published in my own publication curated. So that is an option as well. You can start your own publication.

The Takeaway

The bottom line is to not be upset if you submit your story to a publication and it is not accepted. Go ahead and just hit publish and get it posted yourself. An advantage of this is that you do not have to wait days or a week or two to get a post active and you don’t have to wait that long to even see if it will be accepted.

Oftentimes, self-published stories are eventually picked up by publications anyway. Here’s proof of a major Medium publication, Human Parts, that proactively searches on Medium for stories that have been self-published.

Due to an overwhelming number of submissions, we’re currently pausing on accepting new pitches. While we catch up on reviewing our submissions archive, we’ll continue to scour Medium for great self-published stories and reach out to writers whose work fits the description below. The best way to contribute, then? Self-publish your story on Medium, and if it’s a fit for us, trust that we’ll find it.

So, go ahead and self-publish some stories. You may be surprised by them getting picked up by publications.

Self-publishing your stories is nothing to be afraid of and nothing to be ashamed of and it doesn’t dictate success or failure on the platform. It’s just one of the ways that Medium offers for writers to make their work public, get chosen for further distribution, and earn money.

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