Reading a book and finding out that you have taken the exact same picture they describe — all thanks to following the directions of your earnest thirteen-year-old — who usually takes great photos.

Every time she got her photo taken these days she put her hand on her hip like she was doing the actions for “I’m a Little Teapot,” then turned side on and thrust out her jaw with this maniacal smile — Liane Moriarty in Nine Perfect Strangers.

So, why is the internet encouraging everyone to pose with a hand on their hips? If you know, do tell!