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ch of his thighs were outside of mine. In this position, I tilted my ass upward and squeezed my stocking-clad thighs together as tightly as I could while he glided in and out of my with deliciously slow, deep strokes.</p><p id="e50f">The prone bone position not only increases my pleasure, but his as well, as I’m able to grip his cock with even more muscle power behind my vagina’s vice grip.</p><p id="0381">I was certainly feeling pleasure as we fucked in this way. And I was super turned on and soaking wet when he gripped my shoulders, buried his cock in me as deep as it would go, and then suddenly pulled out. He placed the head of his cock between my ass cheeks as he empited himself — it’s one of his favorite places to come.</p><p id="6d44">But I had yet to come. And I wasn’t about to start sharpening my acting skills in bed.</p><h1 id="995f">So, what do we do at this point?</h1><p id="e557">Gentleman that he was, my partner grabbed a towel from the bathroom, gently wiped me down, flipped me over, and started eating pussy like it was the first meal he’d had in a month.</p><p id="add0">He played with my nipples and pleasured me orally until I orgasmed. When I finished, he grabbed the vibrator from my dresser drawer and proceeded to kiss me passionately while he made me come again from my favorite toy. I moaned into his mouth as the second wave of intense pleasure hit.</p><p id="0586">It was delicious, satisfying, gratifying sex all around. If I had faked it while he was fucking me, it never would have happened. We wouldn’t have bonded over the fact that we both made each other feel such incredible pleasure.</p><h1 id="d3c3">Why do some women fake it?</h1><p id="3535">Women site all kinds of reasons for faking orgasm — from giving her partner an ego boost to making the sex stop because she’s worried she’s taking too long.</p><p id="49eb">But how does this help anyone? It doesn’t do anything to further the bond of a couple. In fact, it hurts it.</p><p id="b2d0">And if you’re just in it for a hot one-night-stand or a friends-with-benefits situation, it certainly won’t help to send a guy on his way making him think he did everything right when in fact he did nothing right.</p><p id="1a74">According to <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/inclusive-insight/201909/3-reasons-women-fake-orgasms">Psychology Today</a>, some women fake it because they believe it will keep their partner from cheating. They’re afraid a man is more likely to stray if they aren’t orgasming and regularly showing him that he is giving her satisfying sex.</p><p id="619a"><b>That thought is more frightening than watching <i>The Exorcist</i>.</b></p><p id="e29c">If there is no room for openness and honesty in a relationship, you’re already in trouble. If there’s not enough trust to be real with your partner when you don’t climax, that’s a recipe that will feed into continually unsatisfying sex.</p><p id="6535">It’s a vicious cycle.</p><p id="b324"><b>Here are just a few of the amazing benefits of being honest with your partner when you don’t orgasm:</b></p><ul><li>You’ll set an important precedent: your pleasure is equally as important as your partner’s, and if y

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ou aren’t coming, then the issue deserves to be addressed.</li><li>You’ll avoid mind games that will only come back to haunt you. What if you suddenly want to start having <i>real </i>orgasms? You’ll only confuse your partner more if you’ve faked it frequently and suddenly stop. Also, if you confess you’ve faked it, then trust is lost, and your partner won’t know to believe it’s real when you <i>do</i> orgasm.</li><li>You’ll address any insecurities you may have about feeling guilty for taking too long or not coming “enough.” There’s no right way to come or a right amount of orgasms. It’s all about exploring <i>your</i> body, which is different from any other body.</li><li>Even if you aren’t in a relationship, you’ll teach your sex partner how to be a better lover for the next gal if you’re honest about not orgasming. Let’s be good and honest teachers who promote female pleasure.</li><li>You’ll open up a dialogue, thereby teaching your partner how to be more skilled at making you orgasm.</li><li>YOU’LL ORGASM MORE.</li></ul><p id="4326"><b>Benefits of faking orgasm:</b></p><ul><li>There are none.</li></ul><figure id="83b1"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*RY4iMWUi-VA34QY9MllKFA.png"><figcaption>Image by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/Mocho-156870/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=image&utm_content=1350918">Mocho</a> from <a href="https://pixabay.com/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=image&utm_content=1350918">Pixabay</a></figcaption></figure><p id="fba5">Here’s to wishing everyone lots of Treats in the bedroom (or wherever) and no Tricks! I hope that sharing some of my sexy Halloween fun can inspire you this evening.</p><p id="602b"><a href="https://mailchi.mp/c255b2f9e8f7/hollybradshaw"><b>Wanna stay in touch? Join my mailing list for updates on my latest blog posts and erotica.</b></a></p><p id="bbab">You might also enjoy:</p><div id="80a6" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/open-to-but-cant-seem-to-do-anal-fb22d262a742"> <div> <div> <h2>Open to, but Can’t Seem to Do, Anal</h2> <div><h3>Pleasing him is important, but I can’t seem to make it work</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*IdJ_iihFKlIHlmqbw9T6HQ.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="a807" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/i-tried-the-coital-alignment-sex-position-ad95d22ac8b0"> <div> <div> <h2>I Tried the Coital Alignment Sex Position</h2> <div><h3>Here’s what I learned with my partner</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*seEtMBnmHgMTYh1f)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

Pretending with Costumes Is Fun — Pretending You’ve Climaxed Is Not

I had the most satisfying sex thanks to my honesty

I absolutely love dressing up. Always have. I’m a theater nerd who’s always found the appeal in role-playing and pretending I’m someone (or something) else. Add to that the challenge of honing my acting, dancing, and singing skills (because I’m not just a theater nerd, but a musical theater nerd), and I’m having a scary good time.

Two years ago, my partner and I went to a friend’s Halloween party in our first couple’s costume. He was Sweeney Todd and I was Mrs. Lovett. I based my costume on Helena Bonham Carter’s look in the film, as she is smoking hot in that movie, with the smoldering eye-roll of a Hot Topic cashier locked down.

My partner based his look on Johnny Depp’s, of the same film. One thing I’m especially attracted to is my guy’s thick, dark (almost black) hair. But man, that silver stripe we added really did something for me. You could say I’m definitely into that silver fox look. I also like younger men. And men my age. Okay, I pretty much like ALL types of men, but I digress.

After-party fun

More recently, I went to a different friend’s party as a female Jack Skellington, complete with short black skirt, black lace stockings, leather corset with metal buckles across the front, and full makeup. (I opted for pigtails over the bald skeleton look.)

As soon as my partner and I got home from that party, we just barely made it to the bedroom before we started fucking. He tore most of my clothes off, and I was fully naked except for my stockings, garter belt, and combat boots. He was hard before we’d even gotten started, so there was very little in the way of foreplay before he entered me from behind, alternating between tugging at my pigtails and tugging at my nipples while he fucked me senseless.

It was quick, compulsive, spur-of-the-moment sex. Don’t get me wrong — there’s obviously immense value in foreplay. I love it. But I also love variety. If there are certain times when he’s so excited to get his cock in me that all he can manage to do is pull the crotch of my panties aside before he plows into me, that in itself gets me pretty turned on.

His desire for me can be an incredibly effective aphrodesiac.

As he thrust into me, I stayed on all fours for a good part of the time. When his breathing got more ragged and I sensed him getting close, he pushed me down, down, all the way onto my belly. He stayed inside me as we maneuvered our legs until each of his thighs were outside of mine. In this position, I tilted my ass upward and squeezed my stocking-clad thighs together as tightly as I could while he glided in and out of my with deliciously slow, deep strokes.

The prone bone position not only increases my pleasure, but his as well, as I’m able to grip his cock with even more muscle power behind my vagina’s vice grip.

I was certainly feeling pleasure as we fucked in this way. And I was super turned on and soaking wet when he gripped my shoulders, buried his cock in me as deep as it would go, and then suddenly pulled out. He placed the head of his cock between my ass cheeks as he empited himself — it’s one of his favorite places to come.

But I had yet to come. And I wasn’t about to start sharpening my acting skills in bed.

So, what do we do at this point?

Gentleman that he was, my partner grabbed a towel from the bathroom, gently wiped me down, flipped me over, and started eating pussy like it was the first meal he’d had in a month.

He played with my nipples and pleasured me orally until I orgasmed. When I finished, he grabbed the vibrator from my dresser drawer and proceeded to kiss me passionately while he made me come again from my favorite toy. I moaned into his mouth as the second wave of intense pleasure hit.

It was delicious, satisfying, gratifying sex all around. If I had faked it while he was fucking me, it never would have happened. We wouldn’t have bonded over the fact that we both made each other feel such incredible pleasure.

Why do some women fake it?

Women site all kinds of reasons for faking orgasm — from giving her partner an ego boost to making the sex stop because she’s worried she’s taking too long.

But how does this help anyone? It doesn’t do anything to further the bond of a couple. In fact, it hurts it.

And if you’re just in it for a hot one-night-stand or a friends-with-benefits situation, it certainly won’t help to send a guy on his way making him think he did everything right when in fact he did nothing right.

According to Psychology Today, some women fake it because they believe it will keep their partner from cheating. They’re afraid a man is more likely to stray if they aren’t orgasming and regularly showing him that he is giving her satisfying sex.

That thought is more frightening than watching The Exorcist.

If there is no room for openness and honesty in a relationship, you’re already in trouble. If there’s not enough trust to be real with your partner when you don’t climax, that’s a recipe that will feed into continually unsatisfying sex.

It’s a vicious cycle.

Here are just a few of the amazing benefits of being honest with your partner when you don’t orgasm:

You’ll set an important precedent: your pleasure is equally as important as your partner’s, and if you aren’t coming, then the issue deserves to be addressed.
You’ll avoid mind games that will only come back to haunt you. What if you suddenly want to start having real orgasms? You’ll only confuse your partner more if you’ve faked it frequently and suddenly stop. Also, if you confess you’ve faked it, then trust is lost, and your partner won’t know to believe it’s real when you do orgasm.
You’ll address any insecurities you may have about feeling guilty for taking too long or not coming “enough.” There’s no right way to come or a right amount of orgasms. It’s all about exploring your body, which is different from any other body.
Even if you aren’t in a relationship, you’ll teach your sex partner how to be a better lover for the next gal if you’re honest about not orgasming. Let’s be good and honest teachers who promote female pleasure.
You’ll open up a dialogue, thereby teaching your partner how to be more skilled at making you orgasm.
YOU’LL ORGASM MORE.

Benefits of faking orgasm:

There are none.

Here’s to wishing everyone lots of Treats in the bedroom (or wherever) and no Tricks! I hope that sharing some of my sexy Halloween fun can inspire you this evening.

Wanna stay in touch? Join my mailing list for updates on my latest blog posts and erotica.