Perfectionism
An end to the illusion
Perfection
The more you seem to get closer to it, the more it gets farther.
Perfectionism is surrealistic. It shows you some ideals to aim towards and leaves you eternally dissatisfied because no human will ever reach that nonexistent level.
Perfectionism is an abomination to human nature. If any human ever was perfect then that one wasn’t one of us. Maybe an alien?
According to Brené Brown perfectionism is used by many people as a shield to protect against the pain of blame, judgment, or shame.
There can be an end to this unhealthy personality trait by spreading light on it and by exploring alternatives.
Excellence above perfectionism
While perfectionism leads one astray; excellence is a more accessible and realistic path to get on. Always striving to do your best, no more, no less. And be okay with that. That’s enough.
“I am careful not to confuse excellence with perfection. Excellence I can reach for; perfection is God’s business.”
— Michael J. Fox
Until next time dear reader: take good care, and thank you for your time.
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