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Summary

Filza Chaudhry reflects on the profound influence of family, professionalism, and a commitment to learning as the guiding principles of her life.

Abstract

The article delves into the personal journey of Filza Chaudhry, who identifies the foundational elements that shape her identity. She emphasizes that her sense of self is not rigidly defined but rather guided by the themes of family, professionalism, and continuous learning. Chaudhry takes pride in her caring family, the professional excellence of her parents, and her own experiences in engineering and science. She values the process of 'learning by doing,' as illustrated through her experiences with baking sourdough bread. The narrative touches upon the complexities of life, acknowledging that while outcomes may vary, the constant presence of family remains a true and steadfast force.

Opinions

  • The author believes that the concept of 'defining' oneself is too restrictive and prefers the idea that certain themes 'guide' one's identity.
  • Family is seen as a significant influence, with the author expressing pride in her parents' diligence and the traditions of her heritage.
  • Professionalism is equated with striving for one's best, rather than achieving perfection or external validation.
  • Learning is viewed as an artisanal process, akin to baking bread, requiring patience, detailed focus, and love.
  • The author reflects on the evolution of her family dynamics, from a time of unquestioned traditions to one where open dialogue and independent thinking are embraced.
  • There is an appreciation for the interconnectedness of experiences and the notion that everything in life, including learning and thinking, is interrelated and requires effort to improve.
  • The author acknowledges that life's outcomes are not always positive, but the enduring presence of family provides stability and joy.

Origins.

Family, Being Professional and Learning Define Me

Family, Being Professional and Learning Guide (not Define) Me. Pictures from My Family Album.

Genesis.

Filza Chaudhry inspired, Thinking about, Themes that, define me.

“Define” is, Inappropriate, “Define” involves, Precision and, Reductionism with, Absolute boundaries, No stray words, No metaphors, No interpretations, No Opinions nor, Objections.

Complexity rules, Our minds, No reductionism, No certainty.

Sub-title remains, Unaltered because, “Define” provokes, Thought.

My story, Explores themes, That guide me, Caring Family, Being Professional and, Learning.

Caring Family

Proud of parents, Diligent at school, Loved university, Engineering and Science, Never questioned, Believed in, Background heritage, England and Scotland.

Traveled to, Mother England as, One did in, My position, Relatives listed, Mapped homes, Friends approved, Duty calls, Never questioned, Never thought of, Questioning.

Working Engineer, Heavy Engineering, Mining Equipment, Metal and dirt, Holiday time, Visit relatives, First stop Battle, Hastings fame, Mum and Dad, Visited family, 1938 now 1975, Found the street, Just a park, Well tended, Green grass, World War II.

Broken link to Honoured past, Independence, New thinking, New perceptions, New pains, New joys, Earl’s Court, Little Australia, Aussie Refugees, Like me, Cut-off from, Family Influences, Whoopee!

Remember those times, Thinking not following, Respecting not bowing, Independence not, Dependence on, Old pronouncements.

Now children, Grandchildren, Opinionated and Peppering questions, Demanding answers, Different times, Better times, Smiling times, Secret memories, Whoopee.

Being Professional.

Loved and admired, Father and Mother, Mother violinist, Father surgeon, Professional attitudes, Caring and diligent, Thoughtful and methodical, Loving family, Role models.

Professional is Doing things, Best you can, Doesn’t mean, Achieving greatness, Perfection or, Goodness, Just keep, Trying to, Reach your, Potential.

Learning

Baking bread, Illustrates my, “Learning by doing”, Four ingredients, Flour and water, Yeast and salt, Various measures, Countless combinations, Complex techniques, Experimenting, Teaching hands, Kneading and shaping, Baking and presenting, Patience demanded, Detailed focus, Love and care.

Sourdough bread, Forest provided, Gaia’s yeast, Nursed and, Tended starter, Two decades.

Everything connects, Starter and dough, Careful shaping, Slashing, Baking, Cooling, Mouth watering.

My bread, Excellent taste, Excellent texture, Poor shape, Never quite, Got it right, Kept trying, Art in, Baking bread.

Learning and, Thinking are, Like bread, Needs work, Thought and, Experimenting, Incrementally, Improving.

Final Thoughts

Three themes, Interacting in, Complex feedbacks, Sometimes, Wonderful outcomes, Other times, Disappointments, But in life, Only family, Remains, Constant and true.

Blessed be.

Poetry
Family
Professional
Learning
Thinking
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