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actice.</p><p id="25a5">Use this time to check in with your body, with your thoughts, and with your feelings. Set the tone for your day.</p><p id="b5dd">Then, when you feel grounded, when you feel like yourself, when you’re happy to be alive — <i>only then</i>, engage with others.</p><p id="fbef"><b>I’ll re-emphasize: stay with yourself until you’re ready for thoughts and energy that are not yours.</b></p><p id="4453">Turn off alerts.</p><p id="3964">Don’t check your email.</p><p id="64e8">Don’t watch or read about the world.</p><p id="5a23">Pretend you’re invisible.</p><p id="0daf"><b>This is easy, and you will benefit.</b></p><p id="812b">Furthermore, you will likely notice that, in fact, most of your problems and most of your stress are caused by factors outside of yourself <i>and </i>that by taking the time to understand and find compassion with yourself, you will be more understanding and compas

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sionate with others.</p><p id="e1be">Make morning-time a part of the day that you look forward to. You don’t need a long time to do this. I’m talking about 15 minutes to an hour out of each day — not a major lifestyle change.</p><p id="f738">If you feel busy and this seems overwhelming to you, wake up slightly earlier. You likely won’t miss the sleep, but if you do, consider how you spend your time at night. Find something that doesn’t benefit you (ahem, social media!) and use this time for rest.</p><p id="0f9c">If you live with others, suggest they practice silent mornings too.</p><p id="ab7e">I’ve been doing this for years, and the rewards of self-reflection are immediate.</p><p id="5a7e"><b>Taking some time each morning to pretend your phone doesn’t exist <i>will </i>make your day better — every single day.</b></p><p id="d50f">If you don’t believe me, I challenge you to try it.</p></article></body>

One Easy Way To Improve Your Day — Every Single Day

Photo: Amanda Larson-Mekler

When you wake up, don’t look at your phone.

That’s it.

Your day will be better if you don’t connect with others before connecting with yourself. I promise.

Keep the first part of your morning for silence. No screen, no outside news, no conversation.

Start your day with something easy that feels nourishing to you: a positive thought or a moment of gratitude, some time for journaling, meditation or prayer, a walk in nature, gentle stretching or breathing, a good book and a cup of coffee or tea or hey, even chocolate. It doesn’t matter what it is; create a morning practice.

Use this time to check in with your body, with your thoughts, and with your feelings. Set the tone for your day.

Then, when you feel grounded, when you feel like yourself, when you’re happy to be alive — only then, engage with others.

I’ll re-emphasize: stay with yourself until you’re ready for thoughts and energy that are not yours.

Turn off alerts.

Don’t check your email.

Don’t watch or read about the world.

Pretend you’re invisible.

This is easy, and you will benefit.

Furthermore, you will likely notice that, in fact, most of your problems and most of your stress are caused by factors outside of yourself and that by taking the time to understand and find compassion with yourself, you will be more understanding and compassionate with others.

Make morning-time a part of the day that you look forward to. You don’t need a long time to do this. I’m talking about 15 minutes to an hour out of each day — not a major lifestyle change.

If you feel busy and this seems overwhelming to you, wake up slightly earlier. You likely won’t miss the sleep, but if you do, consider how you spend your time at night. Find something that doesn’t benefit you (ahem, social media!) and use this time for rest.

If you live with others, suggest they practice silent mornings too.

I’ve been doing this for years, and the rewards of self-reflection are immediate.

Taking some time each morning to pretend your phone doesn’t exist will make your day better — every single day.

If you don’t believe me, I challenge you to try it.

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