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Summary

A mother learns to understand and empathize with her 6-year-old son's fluctuating emotions, which are influenced by his Emotional Solar Plexus (ESP) in his Human Design chart, and recognizes the contrast with her own emotional processing.

Abstract

The mother-son relationship is tested by the child's intense and variable emotions, which are attributed to his defined Emotional Solar Plexus (ESP) as per his Human Design chart. The son's mood can swing from deep love to extreme aggression, which initially upsets the mother. However, she gains insight into their emotional dynamics, realizing that her son's emotional highs and lows are a regular occurrence for him. In contrast, she finds peace in solitude and can also experience the intensity of her son's love and hate when they are together. This understanding leads to a sense of compassion for their relationship, as she navigates the complexities of their different emotional processing methods.

Opinions

  • The mother initially feels upset by her son's candid response about his love for her, which is contingent on his feelings at the time.
  • She attributes her son's emotional extremes to his defined ESP in his Human Design chart, which causes regular occurrences of high and low moods.
  • The mother has an open ESP, allowing her to feel peaceful when alone and to emotionally sync with her son's intense moods when they are together.
  • Recognizing their distinct ways of processing emotions helps the mother develop compassion for their relationship, suggesting she values emotional understanding and empathy.

One day, I asked my 6-year-old son: "Do you love me?"

He said honestly, "I don't know! It depends on what I'm feeling at that time."

At first, I felt upset, then I realized why he said that.

My son has a defined Emotional Solar Plexus (ESP) with extremely high and low moods occurring on a regular basis. Sometimes his heart is bursting with love for me, and at other times he can go super aggressive and hates everyone on earth, even his mom.

In contrast, I am open in my ESP. I usually feel at peace with myself whenever I can be alone and discharge emotional energies from others. When I’m with him, I can ride on his intense love and hate at different times in his moods too.

Understanding how we process emotions differently makes me feel compassion for our relationship.

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