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Summary

The text is a heartfelt tribute to Olivoyle, a determined and unique young girl who has grown into a remarkable individual, showcasing her strong will and exceptional abilities from a young age.

Abstract

The author addresses Olivoyle, their niece, with admiration for her distinctive personality and unyielding spirit. Even as the youngest cousin, Olivoyle never lived in anyone's shadow, demonstrating her independence by refusing to use sign language as a toddler, not because she was incapable, but as an assertion of her autonomy. Her resilience was evident when she chose not to comply with grown-ups' expectations in order to maintain her own agency. The author reflects on Olivoyle's potential, which was hinted at when she touched the ceiling as a small child, and celebrates her current achievements in college and beyond. Olivoyle's adventurous spirit, including her love for cliff climbing, is seen as a metaphor for her life's trajectory. The piece is a contribution to Paper Poetry's "O is for October" prompt, expressing the author's pride and the soaring of their heart alongside Olivoyle's successes.

Opinions

  • The author holds Olivoyle in high regard, viewing her as exceptional and unique.
  • Olivoyle's refusal to use sign language is seen as an early sign of her strong will and desire for self-determination.
  • The author believes that Olivoyle's childhood actions, such as touching the ceiling and her approach to communication, were indicative of her future success and ability to overcome challenges.
  • There is a sense of pride in Olivoyle's accomplishments, particularly her ability to impress the right people with her skills and determination.
  • The author suggests that Olivoyle's adventurous hobbies, like cliff climbing, are reflective of her bold approach to life.
  • The piece concludes with the author's affectionate sign-off, "Love, Titi," revealing a personal connection and deep affection for Olivoyle.

O is for October

O, Olivoyle

A little girl of great will

art by author

O, Olivoyle, do you know, my little niece, how very special and unique you are?

You are the youngest, the baby of the cousins, but left behind is something you would never be.

Hidden in someone’s shadow? I don’t think that was ever a concept to you. Not you, my little niece. My little Olivoyle.

You brilliant, little thing. The only one who 100 percent refused to use sign language as a toddler.

Not because you couldn’t, but because you wouldn’t.

Because you wanted to express your right to have a choice.

To show you have a will of your own, and you would not be broken.

Even that young, you would rather not get what you want than to sign, “Please,” or, “More,” and give the grown-ups what they wanted.

And I said, “This will serve her well one day.”

O, Olivoyle, my little niece, you are not little anymore.

But you’re not even out of college and you’ve already shown the right people what you can do and how well, without skipping a beat.

And all while climbing and leaping off cliffs.

photo contributed by author with permission from photographer and subject

Perhaps, Olivoyle, that day when you were so small, and you jumped so high that you touched the ceiling, that was your higher self telling you that you were going to soar in this life.

My heart soars with you.

Love, Titi

I am contributing this piece to Paper Poetry’s “O is for October” prompt —

O Is For October
Paper Poetry
Poetry
Growing Up
Love
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