NSFW: OnlyFans Saved My Exhibitionism Kink
I took most of my nudes off Fet and made the jump by creating an OF. I was tired of the harassment, but wasn’t going to let these men win.
Posting my body makes me feel good and consensual exhibitionism is one of my kinks. No, Fet isn’t a sex site. No, being on there isn’t blanket consent. Asking men not to speak to you a certain way doesn’t make you a prude or a Karen or a “fat, ugly bitch.” Forcing fantasies on women and arguing about how your threat was a compliment isn’t kink.
And the fact that Fet won’t ever do anything about it is why I’ll never give them a dime, verify my account, or post videos.
You’ll pay the site to make money off content (If you’re not a free user) but not the content creators themselves? Mmmk.
A few things I’ve noticed:
- When you’re more than just you’re nudes, gross comments are more frequent. Almost like they need to erase your personality with misogynistic comments on purpose.
- Men who leave the grossest comments also have content creator profiles blocked and complain about sex work the most. Almost as if they feel entitled to be sexual to any woman as long as she isn’t sexualizing herself for her own gain. So between 1 and 2, I get so few gross comments it’s surreal. And enjoyable.
- Offering free promos is still too expensive for 99% and men will try to scam you for FREE SHIT THAT IS ALREADY FREE.
- The exhibitionist streak in me misses the waves of attention but not enough to let it all be seen for free or deal with the dehumanizing comments.
- Men on OnlyFans are 3 million times more respectful than the men on Fet and only one of them has access to videos. Almost like the ones who actually want to see you versus the ones who feel entitled to you aren’t the same groups.
- I think I have a money kink because it makes me horny when my Cashapp or OF account pops up with a payment. Like soaked on the spot.
- I don’t often feel inclined to make more content or promote it by spamming my friends and followers because it’s just a side hustle.
Nothing profound. The fact that I took a chance on making an OF to see if it would help me feel more confident in my body as I gained control of who has access to it and not taint my kink or experience and it worked is pretty nice. The misogynistic men in the comments didn’t win and they don’t have the $5 to get access to me.
Reasons I’m still reluctantly attracted to men:
- I am usually cold and want to put my hands and feet on an eternal heater.
- I like dick.
That’s it.
Thank you to my recent followers!
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