no mom should ever have to get to the point of screaming “i need a fucking break”

why can’t fathers/parnters realize they need to help more and just fucking do it. why do i have to ask for help constantly? the term mom rage shouldn’t exist but it does because there needs to be a term like dad-dont-help! when my husband was gone for two weeks, i got so much shit done, the workload was less, my expectations were less, everything ironically felt easier. the moment het got back, stress. did you brush his teeth? give him a bath? change his diaper? feed him? like i don’t want to keep repeating myself. i don’t want to keep waiting for a parent to parent! i’m overwhelmed. i’m borderline begging for help with our kid. it’s so damn frustrating. it’s 11:45am and i’ve already lost my mind several times with the moronic shit happening. i have to get out of this fucking house. i have to leave.