No Love, No Words, No Sex
After the wedding, maintaining the marriage depends on management instead of passion.
Those who are good at managing marriages live a peaceful and quiet life. Not good at managing marriage, husband and wife between the nominal, living mutual suffering.
A marriage that exists in name only is like a degenerate “three no-products”: no love, no words, no sex.
no love
“He works overtime and comes home late at night every day. Even if he doesn’t work overtime, he will play until late at night. Two people are sitting in the living room, I watch my TV, and he plays his games.”
Many loveless marriages exist in reality: husband and wife during the day, neighbors at night; one person per room, each sleeping in his bed.
No anniversaries, no Valentine’s Day, no birthdays. Even after he got married, he never said “I love you” to her.
The life of two people is as plain as white water, and marriage will naturally become warm water.
There is no love in the marriage, and the family relationship is not stable enough. The two people are more like living together and raising children together. There is no hysterical noise, no life-and-death struggle, and there is only silence in the marriage. Come to think of it, this is probably the true portrayal of a loveless marriage. A loveless marriage is a “knife that kills without blood”.
The worst ending is not to divorce, but to become a masked couple who have no love for each other and no expectations, but live together. This is the greatest misfortune.
no words
A person’s loneliness is not loneliness, one person finds another person, and one sentence answers another sentence, which is the real loneliness.
The most terrifying thing in marriage is this kind of speechlessness.
There is a young couple who are sitting at the table to eat. The wife eats and talks, and the husband eats and plays with the laptop. The husband was staring at the laptop, and his mouth was perfunctory. The wife said a few more words, but in return the husband ignored her.
From being in love with anything to talk about to having nothing to say after getting married; from being in love with each other when you are happy, to sleeping in separate beds when you are tired of it. How many couples have not “died” of this kind of speechlessness?
At no time should you forget: The relationship of a loving husband and wife starts with your words and my words and collapses when you ignore me.
no sex
Love without sex is not called love but at most friendship.
Many times, when lovers become relatives, when the heartbeat becomes “left hand touching right” when sex life becomes “luxury”, marriage also becomes a “scrap product”.
Marriage is not a one-man show, but an ensemble of two. To have a good marriage, you have to have good sex.
Sex is the antidote to marriage.
Conclusion
Marriage is difficult, but marriage is not the tomb of love, and marriage is not a siege.
You must know that there is no perfect marriage in this world, and no matter how great love is, it will inevitably be eroded by bread and butter.
Therefore, we should not think of marriage as a gentle town and a haven for the rest of our lives. Marriage is a kind of belief and a commitment. It requires each other to manage, guard and approach each other for the rest of their lives.
