Never Fall in Love With a Married Man

There is still time to turn your back on the forbidden love.

Rams, a previous neighbor — is an intelligent woman with a progressive corporate career.

We learned from her nanny that she was living in with somebody who happens to be married. They had a son who happens to be ten years old by now.

Rams broke up with the married man due to conflict arising between them. And now she has a new partner, another married man who is separated already.

An appetite to fall into the trap and embrace the risk.

I do not know her entire story — but she looked like (having) fun hooking up with a married man.

One day, Rams initiated a conversation with me — and was inquiring about property investments. She was more familiar with my wife — but my spouse felt disturbed since Rams could have messaged her instead of me.

Knowing (about) this situation, I was more careful because I didn’t like my wife to feel uncomfortable.

Not sure why an intelligent lady like Rams would engage with married men knowing the consequences of her action.

She must have walked away (from) another unknown situation — but now she has boar another child with a different man who has turned away from his marriage.

Never be enough

I hope Rams one day would think she would never be the original.

Being the other woman from its term- means you are sharing a relationship with (a) person.

The spirit of longing would always surface since somebody like Rams would always be a backup or second priority. No contentment will (be) experienced for something done hidden and discreet.

Being the second woman can never realize a satisfying relationship.

Wreaking the life of someone else

If you were the wife, what would you think if some young lady is out there to steal the head of your family and lifelong partner.

It hurts, right?

You might feel that you are not guilty because you fell in love. And you think there is nothing to blame because it was your feelings (and you are ready to fight for it). Feelings most of the time are deceiving — guard your heart because it may dictate selfishness.

Even if the man married you, note that his attention will (be) divided between you and the people who have been part of his life. You will never attain peace — especially if you have the wrong intention.

Truth shall set you free.

Never isolate yourself from the situation. Your heart (like Rams) will be biased — and you will always think of anything that will work in your favor.

Performing self-talk or your circle of friends might (be) blinded by personal justifications. You must seek help from people who have wisdom over your situation.

At times it is good to take a few steps back and turn your back from the noise. People think clearer if they allow some room- and be with a community of elders to guide them (through).

Key takeaways

A person who happens to be dear to me revealed that she had a boyfriend — and had no idea that he was married. She found out because the guy never showed up at her family — she became a skeptic.

If this is the case, it is not your fault.

For those who are aware of the man being married — think and be careful of your next steps. Moving on to the next leg would not do anything good for your life and future ahead.

Pursuing the wrong relationships will end up things complicated. If you initially thought of embracing the risk — you will most likely be unsatisfied like most mistresses out there.

Always longing and seeking to be loved and prolonged — and it will never happen because you will always be that other woman.

Instead of falling into the pitfall — be mindful of the other women working on their relationships with their men to maintain a good home.

Take time for you to be realizing the lies of the devil. Shift the loyalty to yourself.

You deserve all the love and attention — do not settle for counterfeit love.

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