Money A Mess?

Needing More Money Means Bending The Spoon

Change Your Financial Experience

“My financial life is a mess can you assist, I have kids to take care of and am struggling by the day-“

I received this request for help. Given that money is one of the most common things people want to manifest, you too may want to shift your energy and relationship with money. Here is a good, ‘start.’

Money Is Energy

First, let’s gain clarity. What is money?

When it comes to money, energetically speaking there are so many things at play- however, one of the simplest to focus on is you.

Your energy. Money is simply another reflection of your energy.

Chances are that you can’t or don’t know how to change your energy, so let’s make it a little easier by taking a step back to look at your beliefs.

It is done onto you as you believe-

This is what my teachers said. It means that, if you don’t have enough money (like the person that wrote to me) then you believe that there isn’t enough money for you and what you need.

When you are tired of your finances not being what you want them to be, then you’ll be ready to accept the fact that you have beliefs about money that are not serving you.

You will be willing to accept that you have continued to allow these limiting beliefs, although you probably feel like you can’t change them. You think they are “true.” You probably feel that your beliefs about money“are real.”

And that would be your first mistake!

Money Isn’t Real

When I teach classes on abundance and financial abundance, one of my favorite things to point out is that money isn’t real. It’s printed paper (actually cloth, at least here in the US).

Money is a representational perceived value. You don’t eat money, it’ doesn’t provide shelter. It has no value in and of itself, which is why some people prefer to have gold or silver. They are ‘precious metals’ and hold value, whereas money is just cloth.

And yet, we use money as a way of exchanging value. You exchange value for food, rent, gas and so on.

The idea here is to change your mind and get you thinking of money differently. More clearly.

Why? Because as you do so, the grip money may have on you will likely loosen. This will start to change your experience, and how much money you have.

Personal Power & Value

Money is representational. People with more money, generally speaking, have more personal power. What they are or have is more valued than what another may have. Do you need to increase your value? Do you value yourself?

Raise Your Ability to Attract Money

When it comes to shifting your experience with money, you really want to see money for what it is — something in you. Since money doesn’t really exist, you don’t want to focus on money to have more of it. Focusing on something non-existent yields non-existent results.

You want to focus on what is real. You are real. Your value and your personal power are real.

Unfortunately, a part of what a lack of money is telling you is that you have a belief that you lack, metaphorically speaking. You perceive yourself as not being as valuable, good-enough. You may even disparage yourself.

When you feel this way, you often get angry or depressed. Sometimes you feel like life is unfair.

One difficulty is that your limiting belief, in this case, then takes on emotional charges.

Emotional Charges

Emotional charges are blocks in your energy. These emotional charges are the “baggage” people talk about that keeps you from manifesting. Like a ball of wax, they keep you from being able to draw a straight line to having more money. The ball of wax may even ‘back up’ the stream of money that should be coming to you.

Here’s the thing:

· You know there is money in the world;

· You see others with more money than you;

· You sense or feel that you are supposed to have more money!

This is important! A part of you knows the truth! This part of you knows that there is plenty to go around… but how do you get more?

One simple and basic thing you can do is recognize the contradictions at play. The world may tell you everyone is feeling a financial pinch, but inside you still feel you should have more money, right?

Find these things that are “glitches” in The Matrix, if you will. Those glitches will help you break the illusion that money is like a carrot that you cannot reach.

Untrue, you can have the carrot!

How can something, that we already said ‘does not exist’ be unreachable? You don’t want something that doesn’t exist, right? You want value, more personal power to exchange for things, like food, gas, gifts. So….

You must bend the spoon with your mind to get the money (or anything else you desire). But how?

Bend The Spoon

First, see the contradictions.

Sense or know that you are bigger; you are more. You are meant to have more. This is how you break the illusion, you start to create doubt, doubt that The Matrix is all that is. You want your subconscious to question and doubt the beliefs you’ve held about money.

Second, see that the spoon is not real; money is not real. This way you won’t be distracted and thrown off from focusing on bending the spoon or having more money.

Third, focus on your self-value and the emotional charges that you have placed around money.

Yeah, not easy. This is “the work.”

This is you having to own up to how you feel about yourself; this is you having to find love for yourself.

This is where you have to become aware of those emotional charges — and recognizing that you have to release the balls of wax you hold. (To release emotional charges, I flow my energy, which is a process of welcoming and accepting my energy/emotions to transform them.)

Bent Spoons

There is nothing worse than the bitter feeling inside that you aren’t having, being or getting what you are/ should be/ should have. Right?

If you are ready, it’s time to bend spoons.

The world, The Matrix, tries to tell us how it is and how we are. Who we are.

Only you know who you are. Only you can choose to see money for the spoon it is that you are meant to bend. When you look at the spoon- or your finances- and you focus on who you really are, (not who The Matrix told you that you are), then you will see with different eyes.

Eyes that are looking out but focused within, on yourself.

Eyes that see the truth.

As you focus this way and bend your spoons, you will change your relationship with yourself- the most important relationship you have- your relationship with money and the world.

That’s when you don’t even touch the spoon to bend it. Some may say you have started to work ‘magic.’

They would be correct. When you appreciate yourself, have a good relationship with yourself and focus on raising your self-value and personal power… it IS magic.

Recap To Shift Your Energy/Ability To Attract Money

1. Let yourself see the “glitches” — keep in mind what money really is, value; personal power.

2. Know you are meant to have more — not because you are better than anyone else, but because there is abundance and you too are entitled, just like everyone else.

3. Value yourself — because if you don’t, no one else will. Change how you see and feel about yourself. If you need to, see a therapist, a coach or do some self-help work to increase your self-love (or at least your self-liking)

There is a lot more to increasing your energy around money, but this alone is significant and a great start. If you can take these three steps, your financial situation will reflect the increase in your self-value, your awareness and your increased (must be authentic, genuine) appreciation of yourself.

Yes, as you increase your appreciation of yourself, your money will appreciate too.

Kalyn BR: For 20 years one of my favorite things has been helping people raise their frequency to be energetically bigger and live their dreams. I do this as an Intuitive Retreat Leader to sacred sites in the US, Mexico and Bali and on fun cruises; by Coaching on-going Meditation gatherings and as an author (under KB Raphael) with 10 published books. Inquire about flowing your energy with me on Wednesdays~