Nebraska Lawmakers Restrict Trans Youth. It Is Time To Act!
I read the news today, oh boy.

Nebraska is imposing a 7 day wait for trans youth to start gender-affirming medications. What’s the big deal?
Well it’s not just that.
The regulations also require transgender minors to undergo at least 40 hours of “gender-identity-focused” therapy that are “clinically neutral” before receiving any medical treatments meant to affirm their gender identities. This might not sound so onerous if you are used to seeing a therapist for an hour weekly. Hey, 40 weeks is less than 1-year, after all!
If you are transgender seeking therapeutic support, it is not that easy to find and afford therapy. In my experience, fees range from $100-$150 an hour for a licensed therapist. I am certain a psychiatrist costs even more. Regardless, therapists and psychiatrists are in short supply. I don’t know but suspect that the stresses of the Covid shutdown and our incessant doomsday politics are taking its toll on the mental health of the entire population. There are far more requests for therapeutic help than there are therapists available.
If you are a transgender minor, and unable to come out to your parents or have no support from them, you are out of luck. How do you gain access to a therapist? Maybe at school, but have you paid attention to recent school policies?
Then there is the question of what is “clinically neutral?” Digging further, I found that those hours must be “clinically neutral and not in a gender-affirming or conversion context” and must include “sufficient parental or legal guardian support during and post treatment.” If you are not legally an adult yet, what does that mean to you? Are you running to ask your mother or father for support? If the answer is yes, you are fortunate, but how many dare not, indeed, how many cannot?
Maybe your parents are ideologically opposed to you being the person you are?
Perhaps you live with foster parents, good people, but again unaccepting of nonbinary gender identities?
Oh, by the way, before you can receive any medical or psychological support, you have to live 6 months as your preferred gender. Again, as a minor, you may not be allowed to do this. And even if you can, the school environments now being fostered with bathroom and pronoun restrictions make this a social nightmare for any child beginning transition.
I remember my own youth and how supportive the world was and the options available to me. The message is clear. Get in that closet and stay there!
It’s time we cease fighting by pointing out the failures of this type of legislation. It is time to focus on promoting laws that supply greater access to care and support for everyone, especially gender questioning youth. Are you afraid that people, especially children, might be making a mistake? That is a reasonable fear if not exactly born out statistically. But still it does and can happen, so what do we do? Why don’t we put our compassion into action by providing more support, more mechanisms for access to the mental and physical healthcare to help people cope and succeed without suffering further harm? Why don’t we employ policies that precent or limit the risks of self-harm during periods of suspended treatments while suffering depression and isolation?
It’s time we focus on solutions that address everyone’s concerns and also actually help those who need that help!

